Maybe I am making a big deal out of nothing, but I am so upset right now. My husband's step mom and I are very close or so I thought. I called her today and she told me she was going to my BIL's house to watch their daughter. My BIL is an ASS, and that is being nice... and his' wife is worse. I tried my hardest to be nice with them for the sake of the family.. But after all the crap they have pulled I just can't anymore.. So I just see them when I have to and keep it civil. Anyway I called to ask her if she wanted to come over next Sunday for Mother's day. Like I said before we are very close I have been together with my husband for almost 19 years and we always got along. We go away together, she is so good to me and my children who Love her more than anything.She tells me she is going to my BIL's house and maybe she will stop by. I felt like someone punched me in the stomach. I call her everyday, she lives about 45 minutes away from me I bring the kids up to see her as much as I can. The only time my bil and sil call them is if they need a babysitter or they need something. They never go see her or my fil. Now I know if she said yes to my bil first she couldn't turn around and change her plans b/c of me. But my BIL lives 5 minutes away from me..So she could of split the day or am I making too much of this? I know I'm rambling but I just don't understand. To show you what type of person my BIL and SIL are my husbands real mother passed away last Dec. My brother in law 's daughter never even saw her grandmother b/c my bil stopped talking to his mother ( who lived in a nursing home) b/c of a parking space. She never even saw a picture of her. I gave her some I had, but my bil never knew and didn't even care. My sil still had a party for the baby the day after she died. I'm not making this up.