IT NEVER ENDS!!!

[hnv85]

Mom just called...Wants to stress me out. She is getting kicked out of the house she lives in with a bunch of crazies because she can't or won't get a job.

 She just called to stress me out, wants to move in with us....YEAH RIGHT.......

 I seriously don't care and want to go thru the phone and ring her neck everytime I hear her voice!!!!!!!!!!

 She deserves everything that is happening...She has nothing and has done nothing with her life excpet have and raise me if you can call it that.

Why should I care about her if she doesn't care about me??????????????????

AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Making me feel guilty because of where she is and wants me to take care of her...She's crazy!

[NannyB.]

May. 4, 2009 at 4:15 PM

Other people can only bring stress on us if we allow them to do so.  I can tell that you don't have real warm feelings toward your mom.  I am just wondering if you have ever had a real honest talk with her, telling her how you feel about her and what your reasons for the feelings are.  I think if you would do that, she would have a lot less power to inject stress into your life. 

[AmericanChild82]

May. 4, 2009 at 6:16 PM I know you've talked to your mom and its gone in one ear out and out the other. Honey don't let her bring you down. Stand up for yourself and tell her when she decides to grow up then she can call you.

[livilovey]

May. 4, 2009 at 8:07 PM

As hard as it is, I would probably just worry about myself andmy own family...I don't know the details of your relationship with your mom but it sounds unhealthy...just keep doing what you need to do for your kids and if that means refusing to let her live with you, so be it...

[sheilanaz4]

May. 6, 2009 at 3:06 PM

dont worry bout her girl. you need to worry bout yourself and your family. she is a big girl and if she hasnt done anything to live on her own then maybe this will be a smack in the face and she will maybe get shit together. just stop beating your self up over it. its not worth the time and energy. live your lifeand let her live hers how she is letting herself live it.

[alleykatt28]

May. 7, 2009 at 1:57 AM

Sorry you are going though this. Our parents can cause us some real stress sometimes. Keep you heart strong and your head clear. Good luck to you!