Day 5

[bmamaever]

OK, today was not an easy battle in the quit smoking stride, but I made it through without a cigarette.  About eight or nine years ago I dated a guy who went to prison after we started dating.  Well guess what he is out and has been to my work looking for me.  He says he wants his stuff back and would like me to call him.  OK, does he really think I would still have his stuff after that long and after I started my life with someone new.  I have no feeling left for this guy, I just scared that he will try to take me to court over his stuff.  Does he actually have any grounds to?  I guess I could ask him for the $1500 that I spent to keep it in storage.  I really did not have anything of his that was of value, his dad took all that.  I had some clothes and some odd and end household items.  Should I call him or should I just ignore him?  If I ignore him he probably will be up to my work bugging me.  I really do not want to even speak to him, he is the obsessive type.

[peacebabies]

May. 7, 2009 at 4:04 PM

He can't go after you for that stuff and wouldn't call him at all.  If he shows up at your work again, I would tell him that you don't have any of his stuff and that he needs to move on.  If he gives you a hard time, I guess you can call the police department and find out if he has a parole officer you can talk to about this.  He shouldn't be there at all IMO and if he does take you to court, he'll get nothing and it will only be a waste of time!

Congratulations on quitting the smoking!  My grandfather quit by sucking on Sugar Daddy lolipops!  It gave him some with to hold and suck on, the down fall is that you'll probably have to do extra walking to burn off the extra calories but it is way of dealing with the habit of holding something and the oral fixation.  Good luck!