i try to talk to my husband about how i feel and he shuts me out. I have to be honest the only time he wants to be around me is when the kids are a SLEEP and that isn't right to me he can demand me to do this and this but it is wrond for me to ask him to do anything.Guys act like they are having pms symptoms. I love my husband but he acts like a kid my 19th month old listens better than he does and that is bad he has days where he helps without me asking and there are days where if i even ask him to hold one of the kids he gets mad and starts yelling and throwing things. I don't know if i can go without being with him but he needs to grow up alot. Can someone help me understand y guys act like they do.