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I've tried to be quiet; It's impossible.

It's an easy one, and probably one of the most difficult words to use, however, because it challenges me, IT'S MY FAVORITE.  I love a challenge..I REALLY DO.  I also THRIVE when I'm true to myself, which is another reason I love this word so much.  So "to the point".  So...."self explanitory".

Although, I realized last night, as I was exercising my "new word and right", that sometimes (more often than not, especially AT FIRST), it has to be repeated....

And repeated.

And then sometimes...repeated AGAIN.

And that's ok....it gives me practice.

My new favorite word???

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"NO"..

 

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That's it...short, sweet, and to the point, universally understood, and irrevocably solid.

I love this word...
"NO".

Im addicted..."no"...

"NO, NO!"

lol...I love it.

Try it.

SAY NO when you mean to and want to...

LOVE is the answer; and it starts with YOURSELF.

Say NO, if you feel like saying NO.

If you are not heard, repeat it again....and again, and again.

YOU DESERVE TO BE HEARD, and "NO" can be QUITE EMPOWERING....when used correctly.

xo

Light, freedom, and SELF LOVE to you..

xo

Elle

To thine own self be true.

 

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mierjo
May. 15, 2009 at 9:09 AM Thanks Elle for this post! I have always had a very hard time saying NO. It is something that I am working on though. God Bless Sister!

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autum...
May. 15, 2009 at 9:27 AM

Bichin'....as usual.  :)

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Lb128f
May. 15, 2009 at 9:33 AM

Yes, is a good one too! :-) But, you are right...NO can be liberating! Hope you have a great weekend! How's Andrew doing?

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Shutt...
May. 15, 2009 at 9:34 AM

(Yes is too easy...at first.).

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sonja007
May. 15, 2009 at 9:37 AM

Great word.  It took me a long time to say "no".  But now I love it!!

Love you Sister ♥

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CrzyHome
May. 15, 2009 at 9:51 AM

I can say no all the time, it is always to the girls though. lol

Do you have anything about NOT saying, "I am Sorry?"

Hope to see you tomorrow.

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coffe...
May. 15, 2009 at 10:03 AM

Yes!! (Let me explain : I mean No is a great word and I love this advice, not Yes I'm disagreeing with you which you could construe from that one word answer :) Great advice, as always.  

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lalis...
May. 15, 2009 at 10:30 AM

Are ya sure?

NO!

purty puh-lease

NO!

whaaaaaaaat!

NO!

hmmmmmm

NO!

well..... gonna sunshine?

DERRRRRRRRRR

I'm outta here! gotcha! *teehee*

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barby...
May. 15, 2009 at 1:15 PM

I have trouble using that word. I'd love to say "NO" sometimes, but then I give in. Have to learn to be more assertive. Probably wouldn't be so tired today if I'd said no last night to watching Sebastian, but the thought of having him close...I just couldn't, so today, I'm falling asleep at work. Loveyou.

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kimbe...
May. 15, 2009 at 2:08 PM

I REALLY need to use that word more often!!!

 

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