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- May 26, 2009 at 4:01 PM
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o.k so i was checking out some of the group's on cafemom. i came across this group that let's say well is something else. the owner of the group really thinks highly of herself. and she seems to get a kick out of attention. her thought bubbles are something to behold. where most of us GROWN WOMNEN! will put stuff about our kids, what kind of day we are having, or something entertaining.
what i found was like a figuring gang war. these women are all about being the biggest "bitch" on the block. lord knows i am far from perfect and sometimes i make it up as i go along. but i honest thought when i joined cafemom a couple of years ago that this would be a site for women to kick back have a good time and not be afraid to join different groups.
but what i found where thing's like hi welcome to such and such group!! and from there it would go on to " don't be afraid if we call you out" or " bitch you aint the f'n special" oh and my fave "don't hit the abuse button our we will ( sorry trying to remember the words.) it went something like we will tear you from the inside out."
about a year ago i joined 1 of these such groups and could not believe what these girls do. ( and i use girls not ladies) to say they were hateful is putting it way to mildly. and then if you go to check out their page to get a little perspective it is either set to private or they are lurkers and they are no longer a cafemom.
don't get me wrong i love cafemom and alot of the mom's on here. but i am imagining some new mom seeing the name of a group, thinking it is cool, and then they get accepted just to be their saccrifical lamb.
then i get to thinking these women are ( mom's) i wonder if these women teach their kids these values so when they are on the playground they teach their kids if they are not like them then they are booted out of the sandbox.
i thought their were sights for teenagers to go to. i know mine does. and i would like to state for the record i am 1 of those moms that like to have fun. i just don't feel it should be at another mom's expense. also as some of these mom's are gong through some mental issues like postpartum depression. if some cruel women in 1 of these groups tells her perhaps you would be better if you were dead. how do you think that would impact that person?
oh and if the women who i am talking about reads this i am 35 years old. ( mabey old to YOUR standards.) and i did check out your page because i lkie to know what the owner is like before i even consider joing a group. i am glad you think so much of yourself.
sandy.
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OMGoodness! I so know what you mean. I read random posts & browse around groups to see which ones might benefit me or that I might be able to add something to, but OH the stuff I find!!! I guess I'm "old" too. I'm also 35 :)~
i know i an trying to figure out where my cane is.. and i need a special keyboard because a i can't see a normal 1.
Can't even balance on the cane, had to pull out the walker LOL
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