Bruno & Me Marriage Update

[3kidsanlonely]

Finally, things are falling into place the way I WANT THEM TO!!!

After, me & Bruno had our problems of him saying all those hurtful things to me, truly deep inside him that is not how he felt. His mother came to Texas to see him and to talk with to find out what is going on in his head and why he feels the way he does. He said that he is really depressed & angry inside he knows that is not what he feels, but that is what he was feeling b/c he misses his family, stress of school, the stress of deploying again and the stress of the kids and bills. So he was keeping all that inside him and not telling anyone what was going on that it turned into anger & depression. While his mom was here he apologized to me & my family for hurting me emotionally. Then we went to New Jersey to be w/his mom and brothers & cousins and just be there were he is from for 10 days, in those 10 days he has been such a happier person to be around. Then the best part of it all, we brought his dad back with us to live with us. His dad just came to the states from Peru, he has been in NJ since the middle of March and could not find any work b/c he doesn't speak or understand any english. So since we are more stable than his brother (who is living off unemployment) we brought him home with us. My sister & BIL got him a job and so now Bruno is a whole different person that I have not seen from him in about the last 5 yrs. All weekend him & his dad worked inside & outside in the house doing everything that can be done to a house, that means Bruno not one time this weekend watched TV or got on the internet, before his routines were work, eat, TV & internet, he did nothing to the house or with the kids unless I said something and when I did he did it with attitude.

So I can say now that he is happy so the whole family is happy!!

[babygirlsephie]

May. 28, 2009 at 12:50 AM

thats great to hear girl!