I watched my son cry last night, and I couldn't kiss the hurt away.  His pain is so great and all I can do is hold him, cry with him.  He lost his first child.  There is a helplessness that I feel, there is nothing I can do, nothing I can fix.  The days are going to pass, the hurt will always be there but lessen as time fills up our life again.   The due datewill come and go with a new sense of anguish.  I wish I could kiss the hurt away......      

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sati7...
Jun. 1, 2009 at 8:22 AM

oh I am so very very sorry to hear this. how painful for all of you!!

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mothe...
Jun. 1, 2009 at 8:34 AM

Nothing I say can make things better.  I am thinking of you and your family today.  It must be crazy hard for you too.

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mysti...
Jun. 1, 2009 at 8:38 AM

So sorry to hear this news.  Mom,  you are doing everything,  your arms and your tears are his support and his comfort.  Don't let go and hold on tight.  God Bless you all.

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Trishy2
Jun. 1, 2009 at 8:48 AM

I am so sorry to hear this.God bless!

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older
Jun. 1, 2009 at 1:04 PM

I AM SO SORRY, I TRULY KNOW HOW INADEQUATE IT MAKES YOU FEEL WHEN THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO, AND HOW EASY IT WAS WHEN ONLY A KISS WOULD MAKE THE HURT GO AWAY.  IF ONLY WE COULD KISS AWAY ALL THE HURT THEY WILL GO THROUGH IN LIFE, HUGS!

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Charl...
Jul. 29, 2009 at 7:54 PM

I am sorry to hear about the loss. Both my husband (long before he met me) and a good friend of mine from high school have lost little ones. I have been fortunate.  But I knwo how it is to see a loved one suffer and not help. My husband still gets depressed on his daughters birthday, and anniversary of her death.

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