Baby Daddy and Other Things

[paprika83]

So the father of my baby has contacted me once in the three weeks since I told him the news. I'm not lookin to be with him. I don't want him to be a "fair weather" daddy. It's either on a consistent basis or not at all. I personally believe that he already made his choice but has not voiced it yet. I'm ok with that. There are people in my life that are not ok with it. Although, I know that in long run they won't care so much.

The other night, someone knocked on my door, which was a surprise bc it was late and I wasn't expecting anyone. Well it was a guy that I was seeing back in February. Apparently he misssed me (his words). The last time, he pulled a disappearing act and I didn't hear from him until he knocked on my door. I was honest with him and told him that I'm pregnant. Well, he's still interested. He even wants to go to my doctor's appointment with me. I'm not sure how to take all this. I'm being very cautious and he wants to jump right in. I just want to take it slow and see where it goes. I guess I'm just being cautious bc of last time and the fact that I am having someone else's baby (see above). I'm feeling a little off balanced. I don't think I should just give him my trust, he has to earn it. At the same time, he has made me feel wanted. Granted, whatever happens, I know that I can raise my baby with or without a boyfriend around.