How do I deal with this?

[mommaathome123]

Ok, my husband has a old girl friend from when he was about 17. She has recently filed a complaint for child support on him for her daughter who is three years old now.  Now we have to get a paternity test on the 18th and if its his i dont know what im gunna do. im so stressed out and panicing. im prego with our second baby and im afraid if its his im gunna push my body and mind into a hard place. im scared that im damaging my baby and i cant keep my stress levels down. im so scared and i dont know how im supposed to react to this women. She moved to maine and were in north dakota but yet she wants child support when he didnt even know the kid could have been his. i feel like shes the ultimate home recker. WHAT DO I DO?

[Ashlynsmommy06]

Jun. 4, 2009 at 4:05 PM

How can she do that when the child is already 3?? Also is he on the Birth Certificate??

[babysitter001]

Jun. 4, 2009 at 5:34 PM

I no it's hard not to stress. Just wait for the paternity test. If it is his there is little to nothing you can do about it. He will have to pay. Probably not a lot because they were never married. She may be getting public assistance and they are pushing it.