so i was watching a program or the news or something or other.( which means i was on the computer and to lazy to change a channel) well this broadcaster comes on and say's results have shown that friendships you make online are because of you are unable to make friends in the real world. 

  my 1st response was to get angry at these finding's. then i realized although i may not have as many friends offline as i do online but i am far from anti-sociable. i love making human contact and to me this is just 1 more way of doing it. to me it is 1 of the best way's. where else can you go and make a friend from completely across the world.

   if anything doesn't it bring us closer how about all the communities within thr communities

   not to mention the fact that 3 different friends i have had in the past have used me, in 1 case be-friended me just to get to the gy  was dating. ( it was her be-trail that hurt more than his) i have had friends make fun of me behind my back. ( i have always been a big girl)

  so my friends online really aren't that bad weather people feel it is "realistic or " unrealistic" and they are always there for me when i vent. plus was i was told by an english teacher many moons ago that writing ones feeling's down is therapeutic and this way i get some feedback.

  so whatever "THEY" might say i am extremly happy that i joined cafemom. i have meant some of the best woman in the world on this site.

                                                                     love ya all,

                                                                        sandy.

 (p.s. sorry for any misspelling or grammar errors)

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crazy...
Jun. 6, 2009 at 7:06 PM

 nobody has anything to say about this? come on ladies how do we feel about each other on here?

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eeyor...
Jun. 23, 2009 at 1:11 PM

I love the ladies I have met on here & would truly enjoy meeting them in the "real" world too :)

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