WHY, WTF!!!

[hazeleyes0606]

 Okay let me start with my MIL has seen her grandchildren twice and my oldest it 5 today. We paid for her to come up here for his b-day. OMG I am about to go off. DH and I are going to do what we want when we want with our kids so don't tell me otherwise. She called us both up tight yesterday bc we are not their best friend first, we are the parents then the friends. OMG she is so not like my parents which DRIVES me up the wall. We have order in our house and she doesn't seem to like the way we go about. Guess what they aren't your kids they are ours and you don't seem to get it. Lord she wants to take them everywhere she goes. It is like she is going to get Rhyan's b-day present and she wants to take DD and DH and I said no, she was like why? DH goes on to tell her he doesn't want to take her b/c he wants to get in the store and out not be there all day and that she doesn't need to go b/c we said NO!!! Lord woman what do we have to do to get it through ur head we are the parents not you...She thinks that the kids walk on water and man they don't. DD is a total b**** but MIL doesn't see it....DH is getting sick of the way she is acting with the kids too. It is like come on and grow up, yes they need to see you can have a good time but they need to know when you say no you mean no. Not oh I said no but it is okay do it again. Yes they do that to us too but they know when we mean it...I don't know how I am going to make it till next weekend with them here. I told DH they will ask him why he is with me when they leave b/c I can't stand the way they act. Oh well must go do a few little things before my family get's here for Rhyan's 5th b-day.

[TJSMOM91804]

Jun. 6, 2009 at 2:19 PM

JUST STAY STRONG!!!!!!! I know it's easier said than done, but you can do it!!!!!