Court was yesterday, now I knew deep down they would continue the case. Because CM said they would ok no big deal. Was told be patient because there is no way they are going to move him back to her. Ok fine I'll be patient.
So she shows up to court, gives me attitude. then goes into court and her lawyer tries to get unsupervised visits and more frequent ones. Then says they don't want me to supervise anymore because how can bm bond with him if I am there. Now i can't say anything in court but I will add my commentary "well I only started supervising less than 2 months ago and she's only attended 4 of those 8 in addition she didn't bond with him prior to that I highly doubt she'll bond now" CPS and the GAL throw hissy fits about the request and say there is no way they will allow it, Judge agrees but then says how he doesn't really believe completely psych eval's (now she's had 3 in total with all 3 kids all three say the same thing NO don't give her the baby" he goes on and on about how he has no problem going against the psych eval. and if CPS wants to term. rights on mental health then they will need another psych eval done by a different dr. He then goes on to tell her how she's doing a great job at completing her tasks...(yeah but lets not forget the 4 1/2 months she was gone, or the 18 drug tests she has missed or the numerous visits she has missed but she's doing a great job right?) so he states that yes he is concerned though about her ability to parent a special needs child because of his delayments. and that if she gets him back that she will need to stay in close contact with me and his siblings because that is one of the most important relationships especially with a special needs child (uhhh ok so then let him stay with me, and she can have visitation with the kids I've already told her she could see the kids) so he continued the case till Sept 14th we have a report and review that day then they will schedule a new permanancy hearing. So we "might" know on the 14th of sept if he'll stay with us for good or not. It just pisses me the hell off
So in addition to all that crap I then find out I need to get relicensed with a new agency because our agency doesn't do DDD (department of developmental disabilities) foster care. And we have to have special training. GREAT! I don't mind the additional training I mind the new people coming out to my home and my kids having to get comfortable with new people, and so do I. just frustrating ya know.
So then I was a dumbass. thought today was the kids dr's appt, jumped up got ready, got the kids ready got there and it's tomorrow not today LOL duh!!! and it's even written right in my planner I looked at it, but for the life of me thought today was tomorrow.