How to Approach An Ill Minded and Emotional Person

[calmbreeze]

1. Keep Your Distance

2. Speak Slow and Keep Hands Where They Can Be Seen

3. Introduce Yourself and Give Basic Information like for instance, how old you are,etc. 

4.  Ask the person questions like:

      What is your name?

      How old are you?

      How are you?

      Is there anyone I can help call for you?

 Ask these questions below after you have made the call for that person that way you are both at ease.

      What's your favorite music?

      What's your favorite color?

      What's your favorite food?    

 5. Offer to sit down with them outside somewhat near your home and help get them a glass of water and maybe even some food 

6. Do NOT call the cops on them (Cops are a HUGE trigger (bad memory) for them and they will become violent if you do call them.

7. Authority figures are considered threats to them because of the bad things that happened to them so talk to them as a friend even though you do not know them. You can get to know apart of them by asking basic questions like up above and getting to know them more while you wait for whomever it is they tell you you can call for them to come pick them up.

This works with people whom have mental and emotional problems and can also work for people whom are on drugs. People whom are on drugs need a lot of water and a lot of good nutrious food and also good conversation to help them. There bodies are depleted of the goodness they are robbing their bodies of and need these things very much. So please offer to give them water and food.

If you are not sure how to handle the situation it is best to pray for help for this person and for yourself. To ask for the Lord's spirit to be with you and for you to be able to tell when it is the holy spirit. Any other information is best to come directly from the Lord himself. The Lord knows every single one of us and he is here to help in their needs. Remember their needs are not always your needs in all areas so that is why it is very important to let the Lord be the guide and not what some of our society calls authority figures today. Please think of others and not only yourself. These people also may have family that do not know that there is anything going on or they may know but need your help to help them so please help!!! Thank you so much.

                    Love,

                    Elizabeth (Calmbreeze)   

P.S

   If your worried about your safety and protection it's best to look up online or go into your local police station and ask if they give free protection classes and if they don't where can you find those classes around your area. Robbers,Rapists,etc. have stated that they are scared of people whom know how to fight back and protect themselves.

   

[ethans_momma06]

Jun. 11, 2009 at 6:15 PM

Thank you for this.

[calmbreeze]

Jun. 12, 2009 at 8:06 PM

Your Welcome!

(Original Poster)