Why is it when you talk to someone about Getting pregnant when you have children they act like you dont have a right to feel upset about having trouble?

What You think that I dont cherish my children enough because I am up set that I have been trying for 7 months with no luck? Bullsh*t!

I am thankful For my two beautiful babies! They are well loved and taken care of!

You think because someone else has it worse off in the baby making department that I dont have a Right to MY feelings....
I will Have my feelings about not getting pregnant, who are you to say I cant have those feelings? Or tell me I am wrong for having those thoughts? Or even bitch about it period?

So if You have an issue and someone else (and someone ALWAYS has it worse then you) is going threw something worse Your going to shut up right away?  no, you wouldnt.

I have EVERY right to be upset that My dream of having another baby doesnt look so bright!!!!!!!
I am not going to stop feeling because people I dont know cant have any children, I am not them, dont know them and Its not my job to bend my dreams and desires around others who have it "worse off".

I have known people who have Reproductive issues...I DO NOT talk to them about TTC...I have a Heart and Know that is a painful subject....But that doesnt mean that I shouldnt be allowed to ever express that.

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