I'm not going to freak out until it happens, but I'm definately on my toes until something is decided.
Here's the deal, my crazy MIL has made another stupidly rash decision without thinking OR asking us.
(I know this information b/c I'm setting up DH's facebook page. I logged on this morning to finish adding some stuff for him. No I'm not snooping. He asked me.)
My MIL is NOT on my facebook page. I'm not requesting the crazy bitch! She hates me and makes it more than known. I dislike her as well, but I don't say anything b/c she's a total nutjob. Anyway, I log on to DH's FB page and MIL's status message reads: "I need to start working again. Anyone know of any pyschiatric hospitals in XXXX?" (XXXX = city we live in, but I'm not disclosing that.) My first thought was that I hope she's looking for that type of hospital to commit her crazy butt! Then, I though 'ah crap! she wants to move near us?'
WTF for? She hates me. She knows I feel the same about her. She won't let us come visit them in Texas (even when we lived 4 hours away, she said no.) Two weeks ago, she told DH that she didn't want to be a grandmother to our kids anymore! WTF is wrong with this woman?? (DH and I are the only ones having kids.) Plus, she didn't even ask us! How rude!!!
We don't even want family around us. They are over-bearing, the don't listen to us when it comes to our kids, and they constantly judge and criticize how we live our lives/marriage. We are fine with them NOT being around! We like our privacy.
DH and I don't think she will actually follow through and move here, but it's the fact that she's thinking it (out loud). And this isn't the first time she's tried this stunt. When I was 7 months pregnant with our 1st, she tried to move to our city. I put my foot down. She got mad, but I didn't care. She was horrible to me back then too! She tried again when I was 7 months along with 2nd. She tried to move in to our house that time. Again, no was the answer. She didn't speak to us for months after that. (It was nice! lol)
She never calls. When she emails, it's to be bitchy and complain about me. She never comes to visit. She won't let us come visit. She's never even met my youngest! So really.... what would be the point of her even thinking about coming out here? She's crazy!!!
Either way, I don't think it will happen, but I do think it's rude for her to post it to FB without even discussing it with us - and considering all of the things she's said recently as well as how shitty she acts towards all of us. I just hope that she either find a job somewhere else or in the city she's living in. I absolutely could NOT put up with her for any amount of time. I barely deal with my own mom - and she's a pretty good mom/grandma.
Ah.... I just had to vent. Now, here's to hoping.... (lol) :-) Happy Friday!!
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