Why Wait For the Man To Dump You First??

[Dima128]

Ok, What I don't understand is the amount of mess alot of mothers will go through before seeing the light. Ok I didn't word that right. WHY WAIT FOR THE DUDE TO DUMP YOU? Its like you put up with so much stuff either to you and/or the children. Why not dump him first? Why wait, til its convenient for him? You have a mind, if you not feeling this guy or you have a feeling that something ain't right, or you KNOW stuff ain't right. Leave *especially if you do not have a ring on the finger. If the man is emotionally or physically abusing then get the out! If the man is straight wack rather at home with his momma or depending on you like your HIS MOMMA, go on girl. You will be ok, honestly, not saying that its easy as hell but draft your plan out and go.

Let me break down drafting a plan meaning gather his information license plate#, dl#, SSN *I can't stress this one enough. There is help out there for you so you not totally left alone. Document eveything (if its bad enough) and get his butt on support. Rather you want it or not, its not about you its about the children! He has to pay regardless. If you dating, great, just be smart with it don't take everything he say literally *sometimes I think dudes read the same lame book with the same tired lines CHECK UP ON IT *like Beyonce said. Now take this literally, lol, you can check up on any dude at http://www.publicrecords.com/ it has any convictions, court cases *civil or criminal, past addresses all that. KNOW who you are dealing with for you and your children. But back to the original question, why the hmmm wait for him to kick your pompom to the curb? Well whatever, please believe when you are sick and tired of being sick and tired you'll move quickly, swiftly, and wisely. This is totally edited to G-Version,lol