HELP!!! What should I do?

[beautymomof2]

Well Okie Here it goes, First off My Husband is an JACKASS. I don't know where to start. But here it goes, My husband is so mean to me. He is always hurting my feeling And he don't care. Just an hour ago. He went to the store to get the kids some milk because our daughter wasn't sleeping well after we laid her down. So she was up and well he got me and him some Ice Cream and I said Thank you Baby. He was like Your Not Welcome and that he means it, All he thinks about is SEX and he gets pissed because i don't give him some lovin every Night. Well I don't like to have sex every single night. I just don't get it. Do any of you ladies have the same thing going on. I love him with all my heart but He gets mad for no reason. When I feel like then i will. Its not like he goes with out for months at a time. But when we do have sex and have some alone time its all about making me squirt and im not in to all that and i have done told him that over and over. He doesn't realize that it hurts to do that. Thats why i don't like it at all, But when i want to have a normal alone time with out the squirting he still keeps on and on about it saying come on baby i love it when you do. But i am like baby it hurts me a lot. He did it to so much to where i was crying during it and he wouldn't stop. It made me feel like i was being forced to do something i didnt want to do. But anyways give some advice on it.

[Suzuki-Mom-of-2]

Jun. 25, 2009 at 11:06 PM

Me and my love have been married almost 4 years now and I love sex with him...It never gets old...maybe u guys should try something new to spark ur intrest again,.....maybe u shud take control and tell him to get off some where on u or do something u want him to do over and over again and maybe he will see how it gets old.  

[wastedspace]

Jun. 26, 2009 at 12:08 AM

No offense but your husband sounds like a selfish dick.  He should definitely be more considerate to your feelings.  Would he consider counseling?  I really hate that he treats you that way.  He shouldn't force you into doing something you don't want to do.  I would force him to kiss my ass if he was my husband but luckily Eric is a wonderful husband and wouldn't do those things.  The only thing I know to tell you is to cut him off completely and see how he likes that.  I hope things gets better for you!!!

[beautymomof2]

Jun. 26, 2009 at 9:13 AM Thanks for the Advice. I haven't gave him any for a week or two now, And he is so up set and calls me a tease. I haven't teased him at all. But to him I have. I just don't get him sometimes. He just needs to be thankful that he gets some from me when i feel like it.

(Original Poster)

[Suzuki-Mom-of-2]

Jun. 26, 2009 at 10:45 AM

 How can u say u keep him satisfied if its been a week or two...u kno no sex leads to cheating....and if u cant do it for him then maybe he will go lookin else where.  If he is so mean and forces u into gettin off then u shud check urself lol....what girl dont wanna get offf....u shud just ask him to not make u do it all the time and if your gonna lay there and take it then that is all you.  If he is bein mean to u why stay...

[Rachael]

Jun. 26, 2009 at 10:58 AM

Hun if you are having pain with sex then you should talk to your  Dr.  I am sorry he makes you feel like sex is all that matters.  IT IS NOT!  And if he cannot figure out other ways to enjoy your time together then he is a waste of your time.

Suzuki-Mom-of-2

Whoever taught you that not giving your SO sex whenever they demand leads to cheating LIED TO YOU.  That is the LAMEST excuse there is.  If she is having medical issues that cause PAIN then you think she should jsut suck it up to satisfy him... HELL NO!  My DH would NEVER think of cheating on me and I am having medical issues now.  So what if she became unable to have sex... then he should leave her for some woman with the capability to satisfy him.  Why?  The mans sexual urges are the most important part of a marriage?  Sorry but that is NOT love.

Ugh now I am annoyed!

[beautymomof2]

Jun. 26, 2009 at 7:07 PM Well First off My Husband has never cheated on me and never will. He will Jerk off before cheating on me and I get UTI all the time so yea it bothers me.

(Original Poster)

[Suzuki-Mom-of-2]

Jun. 26, 2009 at 9:42 PM

Well, u didnt say u get infections u just made everything out to b his fault...u shud word things different.....Yea, strokin feels so much better...if he candle handle it him self then y b with u and if he is so mean y stay? seriously...O look at me I am married to a guy that treats me like shit but thats ok....i will just cry about it.