TYMC

[Blueberryplz]

So I tried to log on the other day to see what was new in the group && was shocked to find that I had been deleted.
I knew it wasn't because I hadn't been active because I had just recently made a post saying that I had found a new apartment.
When writers_mama finally replied to my questioning message, she said I just wasn't active enough.
This hurts me a little more than I think it should.
I don't have internet at home, but I still make time to check the group.
I don't have a digital camera because mine broke, so I haven't been able to participate in contest and stuff.
And really, the group was suppose to be about being there for each other right?
Well, I was active, maybe not as much as they liked, but I was still part of the group && still knew the girl's names.
Just because I'm kinda shy online && don't reply to everyone's post, doesn't mean I don't care and doesn't mean I don't need mom friends.

Oh well. Guess I'm groupless.

[mamawhite122]

Jul. 30, 2009 at 11:36 AM

hi, i just have to say that this journal is very unfair and a little immature. i am apart of tymc and a part of one of YOUR groups. You are not left groupless and you are in no way shy online. I've seen your activity in your group and your nonactivity in tymc. i am shy online and don't post regularly in tymc but ive made friendship in there none the less and im still a very loyal member.

The fact that you even mention writer is rude. This journal is just to create bad publicity for a very wonderful group. Tymc is a wonderful place that really helps all of us in it. The admins are selective to insure that everyone stays safe and there are no problems. You were a lurker posting minimiumly probably just to get ideas for your group, ive seen the similarities between tymc and ur group.

I am a recovering coke addict and am pregnant with my first child, tymc has really helped me turn my life around for myself and my baby. This journal really makes me angry because it is very inaccurate and mean. Tymc is a wonderful place and i thank god every day that i found the girls.

So in short, please do not say things that about them when you were in fact very inactive and not making friends with anyone in there and you have your own group in which you are very very active and outgoing.

thank you. 

[ClairesMommy209]

Jul. 30, 2009 at 11:48 AM

I agree with mamawhite122.  It was very rude to make this post and expecially mention writer.  TYMC is a great place and this journal is plain redicilous.  Any and all issues should have been taken up with writer.  She is a very understanding person and a very fair person.  Did you even try to explain your situation to her?  If you were member enough to actually read anything about TYMC you would know that it says that if you get booted that you are more then welcome to reapply. 

[writer_moma]

Jul. 30, 2009 at 12:03 PM

she did reapply, but i didnt think it was fair for her to not post regularly and post a lot in her own group. something wasn't working there. she didnt reach out to us and make friendships and that is what i had explained.

please, do not mention me in any further of your journals. and if you do at least get my screenname right.

im sorry you felt hurt, but i explained to you the reason and it should have been left at that.

[Lilmissladybird]

Jul. 30, 2009 at 10:37 PM

I'm sorry that your situations did not premit you to be an active member of TYMC but does not mean you got to bash a group that is wonderful. We are a close knit group of women who need activity. We are close to one another for the simple fact we are all in the same situation. I hope you find a group that you can be active in so you can stop bad mouthing our group.