This is a BIG VENT with bad cussing.

[knagsmom]

So first of all this is not for anyone who wants to make nasty comments and be mean. i really need to vent and this is the only place i can.

Im so pissed off that my dh thinks that just because he helps out during the night so that i can sleep( after i had ds i was antidepressants due to ppd and pts) so they put me on two antidepressants and sleeping pills. anyother time he hardly helps unless i get very frustated and its only because he wants to get some. When im done putting the kids to sleep i still have alot to do as im sure any mom wheater u stay at home or work outside the home knows. and the last thing i feel like doing is having fun with the hubby especially when we havent had alone time in 2 yrs. so im not in the mood all the time.

tonite was a nite when ds is having sleeping problems(he has nitemares or nightterrors that are very hard for me to handle) and then dd got a dime size piece of hambuger meat stuck in her nose at dinner so I took her to the er by myself and had to hold her done while they got it out. he was sitting at home unraveling a knot in yarn rather then getting ds ready for bed or cleaning up dinner. (i ended up doing it all when i came home) then he says ok im going to bed. Well that nice for him i still had things to do and to take sleeping pills. by the time i get to bed its 12 and then at 1am ds is in our room in my arms with said yarm from above. i am pissed off because hubby had been sleeping since 10 and i moved over and he got mad because i woke him up.( im sorry damn it but im  tired too.) of course then dd wakes up to but hubby wants to talk about why im mad. Huh ummmm maybe cause neither one really naps during the day so i have zero time to myself and i get nothing done. and now we're going to be moving again and i will be doing it all by myself plus i have to take the kids while i do it. i love my kids they are my world but im so tired of being the only one taking care of everything. i thank him for working to take care of the house and bills but i need alittle time where i dont have him or the kids pulling on me

[MSugarKane]

Jul. 9, 2009 at 7:33 AM

yes, you DO need time for yourself.  Women tend to go day to day to day and we do for others but months can go by before we think about ourselves.  

Just add yourself (somehow) into your schedule and stick to it. 

[poli_sci_mom]

Jul. 9, 2009 at 7:40 AM

i know how you feel.

[knagsmom]

Jul. 9, 2009 at 3:23 PM

thanks ladies

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