Dilemma with Facebook "Friends"

[aluvk4evr]

I debate every day as to whether I just want to deactivate, yet again, my Facebook account. Something bugs me about knowing that the people who request to be my friend simply want to know what I've been up to since we graduated. Not saying there's anything wrong with that, I often wonder what has happened to this girl or that guy. But I find myself reluctant to accept these friend requests or make my own.  Maybe I wouldn't be so uptight about it if my life was more interesting, or if I had achieved more in my four years. While many are graduating, traveling, or as I like to say "doing big things," I'm a SAHM, and I guess simply put, I'm a bit ashamed. I mean it's not like I was the HS queen who let herself go. I wasn't ever the "IT" person, but I wish I had more to show before finally settling down.

[kittenripmaygo]

Jul. 13, 2009 at 9:34 PM

i add my friends on facebook just to see how they're doing and how they are after graduation.. they added me for the same reason..

turns out, some are doing good, some are doing worse, and some are stll the same BUT lmfao

all of them are surprised i'm having a kid from a guy from our school.. that i've NEVER met. till after I graduated lol so much for a small world huh?? the only time my SO and i met before after graduation was when he and i was in the 3rd grade lol

[aluvk4evr]

Jul. 13, 2009 at 9:55 PM

That's really cool. Kind of serendipitous.

(Original Poster)