So I posted earlier this week, regarding cutting ties with a friend that just wasn't creating the best situation for me anymore.
Basically I got tired of this friend trying to make me feel guilty, about things, when I had done nothing wrong.
I officially did cut those ties this week, after she pushed the issue even further.
So today, I am sitting at work, and I have two new texts on my phone. I open it up and one if from my friend who I haven't talked to in a couple months. And she is making all these plans with me now to spend time with me and our SO's so we can all see eachother more.
The other is from someone I haven't talked to in a couple years, (not since I had my little break down a little over a year ago and my head got all messed up and I needed to sort of start over a little). I told her I was sorry I had been a bad friend, and that I was surprised she was still talking to me. She says "no worries, your my sister, and sometimes we go a little cookoo, and need to get back on track".
She has called me her sister from pretty early on, one of those soulful connections. Her and I have never argued over being able to spend time together, or who was favoring what...blah blah....Just a very peaceful relationship, and i have missed her greatly.
So maybe sometimes, cutting out the negative, can leave more room for good things to happen.