To try for a 3rd or not?

[mysticmom2]

That is the big discussion between me and Jeremie right now. We went and visited his family in Louisiana while we were in Florida and ended up getting to spend time with his cousin who also has 2 boys around the same age as ours. It was really fun hanging out with them and seeing the boys together. Well I was talking to her and she was mentioning how they were going to try for one more and hopefully it will be a girl as the 2 boys and  a girl tend to run in their family. Also being there was a few babies. I think one was 9 months old and the other was 1 year or so. I started getting ...baby fever. Than when we came back I brought it up to Jeremie and he obviously did too and he looked at me and said well lets go for it. I was super excited. But we have some things to consider which is kind of a bummer. His sister is getting married in May. Her wedding is going to be in Scottland. So we will be flying to Scottland. She told us she really wanted us there and she really wanted the boys in her wedding. So Jeremie told her well now I either have to tell my sister I can't come to her wedding because we are having another baby or I have to tell you we have to wait until June because of my sisters wedding..lol.  I was also thinking about going back to work this year since Elijah is starting school and all. I was quite excited about that after being home for 4 years now. So that would put me back to going back another 4 years. Also I keep thinking about how the boys are getting bigger and do I really wanna do it again? But I would love to have another baby and would love to give Elijah the chance to be a big brother. I dont want my kids to be too far apart so if we are going to do it I want to do it really soon. As at this rate Elijah will be almost 5 when the baby is born and Noah will be 8 1/2 or so. Im really nervous at the thought of having 3 too..lol. But I think I really want another. Im also hoping for a girl but would be just as happy with another boy. Im really curious to know what our 3rd would be like as our boys are such opposites. Ohhh..so many thoughts. What to do?

[pinkdragon36]

Jul. 19, 2009 at 2:30 PM

I think you should do what you have to do for you first and then have the child. Good luck