My husband is off in another world

[kellylsmith141]

I stayed off work for a year to be with my daughter who is now 20 months. However now I am a full time employee and I can not seem to get my husband to help in the house. Its like he got spoiled. When I talk to him, I think I have better luck talking to the trees out in my yard! I even broke down one day and I thought that scared him  to the point, but it didn't. He is stressed, his work has slowed down from 70 hours a week to 10 and I am the only income. His truck broke down and we don't have the money to have a mechanic fix the issues (2x's the amount) so hes doing it himself. While he was fixing the truck he got spider bit twice which he is allergic and had to go to dr. made him very sick. So he constantly has something to do other then what I need. I am trying to not be selfish, but I have no sympothy because he waited so long to go to the dr. and his truck that takes him back in forth to work he tried to turn into a race truck and now it needs work. We normally are financially stable and can afford extras, but we are becoming unstable quick. While he is in this rut, it makes me in one too, and he does not want to talk about it. How can I keep my house clean and keep my sanity, with 2 kids in the house? What do you guys do to stay organized (while working full-time)  I am having that as my major issue. I have so much to do and on my mind, everything gets left out and has to be put up.

Kelly