I am prejudiced against raciest.   I fully admit it.

I went over for a girls night tonight. (my in laws are in town so I was double booked) 

When it hit 9:45 the host is chatting with us all.  She was telling us about her new boyfriend and telling him why our town was better than his. 

She says:

We suddenly look up and the place is full of black kids.  The [city] kids had been bussed over for a day at the bowling ally. 

I told him  that is why he needs to live here.  It is cheaper and there not so many black kids.  Those kids are so rude!

I then turned around and tossed my homemade guacamole in the trash.  I was trying to decide what to say and how to say it.   Another woman in the group said, "Well that isn't because they are black."

I said, "I prefer my kids to go to school with minorities.  Sorry to interrupted but I need to go.  Anyone want to watch me walk to my car?"

The whole party left with me.

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Mythi...
Jul. 26, 2009 at 12:13 AM

I thought they covered topics like that in the aol.com "10 things not to say as a host" piece. Sad.

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auror...
Jul. 26, 2009 at 12:38 AM

Haha!  That's AWESOME that everyone left with you.  Good for you. 

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Gaia_...
Jul. 26, 2009 at 8:46 AM

Awesome, Rebecca.  People can be such a-holes.

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used2...
Jul. 26, 2009 at 11:28 AM

Ha!!  I can just see her standing there after you all left, going "Gee, was it something I said?"  Good for you, that is awesome that they all came with you!!!

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KTMOM
Jul. 26, 2009 at 12:46 PM wow. Good for you for leaving and good for everyone else for following. People blow me away sometimes.

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sherriet
Jul. 26, 2009 at 1:55 PM

Good for you!

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Fista...
Jul. 26, 2009 at 3:02 PM

W

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W

!

I take great solace in the fact that everyone left after that stunning display of intolerance.  There are more good apples than bad after all.

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logan...
Jul. 26, 2009 at 4:23 PM

Wow.  It always amazes me that people like that still exist.

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irish...
Jul. 26, 2009 at 5:04 PM

You are an awesome leader!  Not suprised.  While at my brother-in-law's for Thanksgiving several yrs ago, he said right in front of our little girls "No daughter of mine will ever marry a black man."  I got up from the table and said "I would much rather my daughter marry a black man than a bigot."  Not sure he got it.

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0Jenna0
Jul. 26, 2009 at 9:26 PM

It's amazing that she didn't even think twice about what was coming out of her mouth. Wow!

Good for you for leaving... and taking everyone with you!!

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