Well, now I made my husband eat his words!!

[Barbiewithabeef]

I have been feeling ill since last Friday and on Sunday I had a bowel movement with blood in it!!  The blood filled the whole toilet! So after I cleaned up, I went and told my husband that I have to go the hospital to get checked out because any blood in the stools is not good!!  Especially knowing that I just had hemmorhoid surgery in November, so maybe I still have some internally that are causing this bleeding.  He takes one look in the toilet and one look at me and says that I am over-reacting!!  How cruel can this man be? 

I am so angry at him I start yelling at him that when he is sick I take him at face value when he has to go to the hospital with no questions or put downs and he has a nerve to say I am over-reacting?  He has been sick too with sinuses and he has been having trouble getting rid of it for about 2 weeks now and I have treated him with nothing but dignity and he treats me like this?  He said he does not have money for me to take the bus to the ER and I said, 'what about your bus pass'? You know what he said to me?  'Oh, I need to use it to go to the ER again so you will have to take yourself and find money to go there!'  What a bastard!!  I just hope one day his whole colon falls out so I can give back to him what he just did to me!!  I looked up my symptoms online to get some background as to what it could be and why besides hemmorhoids am I bleeding back there.  And he still said I tend to over-react when I get sick!! Bullsheeeet!!  He's the one who acts like he is near death and gets waited on and nursed back to health!

So I had to wait til Monday morning to go and when I wake up, I find money on the table so I take it and go to the ER by myself.  I had to take 2 buses to get there, plus walk a few blocks to get there, in pain and walking with a cane.  I get there, filled out the paperwork and they took me back within 30 minutes!!  It was a big deal to them because usually it takes them an hour or more to get me back there in the room!  They immediately put an IV in my arm to be able to get a CAT scan with iodine injection in my arm!!  I also had to drink some berry flavored smoothie before the scan.  Before I had the scan however, the doc injected me with dilaudin for pain and you talk about a head rush?  That stuff worked fast and I started getting real dopey!!  I heard the doc talking about a blood transfusion if my blood count came back negative and talking about Crohn's disease and other things that could affect my colon!!  I WAS RIGHT!! 

So when the doc left to go order some more tests, I called my stupid husband and told him what the doc had said.  My dh said that he was sorry and he would never doubt me again or say that I over-reacted!!  I told him, yeah right, we shall see!!

Turned out I had a pain in the left side of my belly going around the back and up my spine.  They found a cyst in my ovaries.  I don't think that has anything to do with blood being in my stools.  They did an anal exam and didn't find any blood there so now I will have to get one of those kits to do at home to prove it.  But still,  I know my own body and when to go to the hosipital and when to stay home and deal with it!

Needless to say he ain't going to get no nookie for a week after this!!  Besides, I might vomit on him from pushin' too hard!! LOL

[TJSMOM91804]

Jul. 28, 2009 at 4:03 PM

Glad you finally made it to the E.R. You need to take care of yourself first & not worry about him & his sinuses.  Hubby doesn't deserve ANY lovin' at all for what he did!!!!! Hope you feel better soon!!!  HUGS!!!

[MomaNana2008]

Aug. 24, 2009 at 4:42 PM

It might be possible that although your had blood in the toilet with the bowel movement, the blood might have come from your vagina with a cyst breaking or something uterine involved.  If you were upset, you may have mistaken it. If you don't bleed again, they might think that it was a cyst. Hope you feel better. You need to try getting more rest and maybe drinking some red clover tea with raspberry tea, which are healers for a women's reproductive system, also. Try not to drink alcohol if you drink at all. Maybe some  hops or scullcap tea (either in ice tea or hot tea)-to relax, you are very upset and with all the other problems, these teas could really help you stay calm and heal.  Hope you feel better!////