Civilian LOVE vs Military LOVE
...You complain that your boyfriend/husband has worked late all week and have barely seen him
---I look forward to the two weeks a year we spend together.
...You complain b/c he doesn’t call you enough.
---My heart is thankful for the 15- second phone call I got last Tuesday in the middle of the night!
...You whine to you friends about how much you miss him already because he is on a two day trip with his parents.
---I haven’t seen him for 7 months now.
...Your boyfriend/husband belongs to you.
---Mine belongs to the government.
...It’s just not practical for you to drive an hour to see him every weekend during school.
---He spends $700 dollars on a plane ticket just to see me 2 days.
...You hate hanging up the phone when talking to him.
---My heart breaks because I won’t talk to him for another 10 days.
...You complain that he doesn’t take enough time out of his life for you.
---My husband has to get up in the middle of the night to talk with me because of the time difference. He doesn’t complain.
...Your husband is in a bad mood from not sleeping much this week.
---My husband ran 10 miles this morning at 4 in the morning and has a full day of work ahead of him.
...Your boyfriend/husband can call out sick when he is tired or not feeling well.
---My man works no matter what.
...You don’t trust him so you follow him places to see if he is telling the truth.
---I have no choice but to trust him and even then I trust him with my life.
...You don’t like him talking so sexually with his friends.
---My boyfriend/husband has to chant it in drills.
...You check your phone, see you missed a call from him, and decide to call him back when you aren’t so busy.
---I see a missed a call and cry because I don’t know when he can call again.
...You might save a cute voice message from him.
---I save them all because it helps me to remember what his voice sounds like.
...Being apart for a month to you seems daunting.
---A month apart for me is a wish that can’t come true.
...You wouldn’t change schools to be close to him.
---I have to move to another country to be with him.
...You have every part of him memorized.
---I study pictures so I don’t forget what he looks like.
...You take your time together for granted.
---We don’t.
...Your cell phone bill was high this month from talking too much.
---He pays 20 cents a minute to call me.
...You love that fancy necklace he bought you.
--- I refuse to take his dog tags off, and not a day goes by that I don’t have them on.
...You say you miss him.
---Times that by 20000000000
NOTE: This is NOT for Drama, Just a Poem I like and Stand Behind.....
Comments:
well put. I am NOT a military wife but many of my family was in teh military. I have a lot of respect for military wives. They are brave women who give a lot. . .as well as their husbands who risk their lifes for our freedom.
I understand, BUT, it was your Choice???.... I've been a military wife and a civilian wife, I really don't want to hear it, and I don't think too many others do too, to be honest... I say this because my familiy has more than done their duty with the military.
I feel for you. I cant imagine what it must be like being married to the military. God bless your family!
Like I said Kay300 This is NOT meant for drama I posted this because I really Like this Poem.....IF You dont want to hear it or IF anyone does Not want to hear it or see it for that fact then dont read the Poem, thats all it is to it......and Yes I have been on Both sides Of the Fence as well......to the rest of you ladies who posted a Comment TY for the Comments
kay300 shut the hell up i dk why people on here always starting drama.if you didnt like it click of the page.![]()
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