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Admin/Vet Interview

::::General Stats:::::

Name: Kristin

Age: 24

Relationship Status: Married

Kids/Ages: Adriana age 2

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How long have you been a member of Bitches@CafeMom? Since November 08

How did you end up being an admin? Jo asked me to be the invite admin after I won the most recent siggy contest.

Do you find admining Bitches to be more difficult than other groups you admin? Why/why not? Compared to the last  group I admined for its a breeze. The last groups owners couldnt pull their heads outta their asses and get anything done, working with the bitch team is wonderful!

What duties do you have as an admin in the group? I am the invite admin, so I spend a good chunk of time looking for people that will like the group and be interesting to talk to. I also just started my first photo contest. And I do the Beautiful babies of Bitches Pageant as well.

What are some of the harder things to make calls on when it comes to someone breaking the rules? Racial issues are always interesting  to make a call on, because of the many nuances it can take.

Do you ever feel power hungry?  How do you feel about admins/GO that feel and act power hungry? I have the POWWAAA! LOL, No. Its not about having power its just keeping an eye out for problems and trying to keep things moving. I think its really stupid and lame to get power hungry. Its not an effective way to accomplish anything besides looking stupid.

Do you ever find yourself wanting to stand up for bitches in other groups? Why/why not? It depends on what is being said. Opinions are one thing, but bashing the group isnt gonna happen without a fight. We are a great group with a lot to offer!

If you do, is it more because you are an admin now and feel obligated or just because you dont like people 'bashing' our group? I just became an admin, so it has nothing to do with that. I LOVE the group and dont like seeing it bashed.

Do you belong to or admin any other uncesored or bitch groups? Im in a few other uncensored/bitch groups. I dont admin for them.

If so, how do they differ from Bitches? The attitude and general feel of the group is very different. We have alot of variety within out members, and the games and contests and offer alot of things that are brand new and completly our own.

How do you honestly feel about all the drama between the bitch groups?  Do you think its necessary? I think people have figured out that a good way to get started with a new group is to start shit with the established groups. What I find hilarious is that those groups always end up fizzling out when the drama is over.

::::Vet Questions:::::::

What post or posts stands out in your memory when it comes to drama? The last big blow up with Beth stands out. The drama with some of the former owners and admins, and the stuff with Lori also.

Who in the group do you think is always 'butt-hurt' and why? Right now, its JDM. Shes very defensive and I dont get it.

Who do you think stands their best in the group and why? Mommysayz. I LOVE it when she cracks the whip and gets mean.

What are some of the things you get sick of hearing about, even in a bitch group? Why? Mommy wars. Nobody ever wins, and its never ending because of it.

Who is someone in the group that just irritates you every time you see her post and why? Not in this group.

Do you have a bitch title? If so what is it? Why did you pick it? Im the West Virginia Bitch!. That is my home and I am a WV girl for life.

Who's bitch title do you think doesnt fit them at all? TYNIAHSMOMMIE - The idalized bitch. Um NO.

What is some advice you would give to a noob coming into the group? Take your time and get a feel for the group before jumping in. You dont need to say the work bitch in every sentence and for gods sake dont act like a dumb ass if you dont want to be ridden HARD.

What is something about you that you feel makes you a bitch IRL?  I dont take shit from anyone anymore. i used to be a pushover and did everything for everybody. Now I'll still help when I can, but I dont let people take advantage of me like that anymore. I also have extreme verbal road rage.

What makes you feel like a Vet?  Is it amount of time in the group OR general recognition of the more active members in the group?  Its both really. To really be a vet you need to have been in the group for at least a month or two and been active the whole time.

Do you think you can make real friends in a 'bitch' group? Why or why not? You can, just because we are bitches doesnt mean we arent good people, and it doesnt mean we behave like douchebags all the time.

What member would you want to meet and go have drinks with IRL? Why? Mommysayz, mamaxkitty, Jenandakidtoo, lord I could name a bunch. They are do very different from me and from each other, but just give off this vibe to me.

Any final words for us bitches? Uh No.


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Comments:

Mommy...
Jul. 29, 2009 at 12:01 PM

awww you lubs meh *giggles*

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adria...
Jul. 29, 2009 at 12:16 PM

Hey I gived you a photo, just for this! Why didnt you use it?

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adria...
Jul. 29, 2009 at 12:17 PM

And yes, i wubs you...

*runs from Missy*

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missm...
Jul. 29, 2009 at 4:12 PM

Hey... you should run for not giving me a shout out!!  *tantrum ensues...*  lol  Good job!!

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