I am 22 years old and I do not kno how to drive. Have never driven. I don't have any help or suppost in my life. So I decide to hop behind the wheel of a "friends" car and take action myself. Needed to say, it didn't end pretty. Im going to talk to the owner of the parked car about the damages(Ieft a note) but I can't help but feel like a failure. I'm 22 with two kids. Had to drop out of college twice and it seems like no matter what I do NONE of plans work out. I don't know what to do. Where to go. I just know I need a change. For me and my kids. I need schoolong or a good job and a CAR. I feel AWFUL about hitting that car. I dunno. I'm just a mess. WHat does God want from. Am I not a good enough person? WHat can I do to be better? To diserve happiness. To have a true friend, or someone who cares about ME.

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MSuga...
Aug. 2, 2009 at 9:16 AM

There are driving schools to learn how to drive.  They provide the car and you get to learn.    You will need someone to sit with you for many hours of test driving before you pass the course.  First would be to apply for a learners permit.

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TJSMO...
Aug. 2, 2009 at 1:18 PM

GOD CARES ABOUT YOU & I'M SURE THAT THERE ARE LOTS OF OTHERS WHO ALSO CARE ABOUT YOU.  YOU ARE NOT A FAILURE. YOU ARE A WONDERFUL, BEAUTIFUL PERSON WITH A GOOD HEART.  OTHERS WOULD NOT HAVE LEFT A NOTE ON THE DAMAGED PARKED CAR, BUT YOU DID.  THAT SHOWS YOU HAVE A HEART, A CONCIENCE, AND MORALS!!  STAY STRONG!!!

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Mythi...
Aug. 2, 2009 at 8:15 PM

Hitting parked cars is just a thing that happens in life. Even people who have driven for years do it. ;-)

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PestP...
Aug. 2, 2009 at 10:40 PM

Hitting parked cars when someone doesnt know how to drive,  and with someone's else car.  Is not a thing that just happens in life. 

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PestP...
Aug. 2, 2009 at 10:42 PM

OTHERS WOULD NOT HAVE LEFT A NOTE ON THE DAMAGED PARKED CAR, BUT YOU DID. ---------------------------

 So much better, she DOESNT have a license.  I would not be happy if an UNLICENSED driver left a note on my car. 

 

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Mythi...
Aug. 3, 2009 at 12:06 PM

You are a grade A ass and obviously oblivious to the "catch 22" in this situation. I think she will be a fine driver with a little more practice behind the wheel now that she is more alert and aware of the "what if's". I hope some one takes away your keyboard in the future when you are PMSing.

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mommyibe
Feb. 13, 2010 at 10:08 PM

I care, call me i'm down the road, a phone call away...I'll teach you to drive.  i just taught my 18 year old. god bless.....you rock

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