This is more of a question than a journal post, really, but I don't frequent the Answers section that often, so I decided to pose this question in journal form.
What do your husbands think about Cafemom? Do you tell them about all the conversations you have on this site? Do they understand the bonds you may have formed with people you have never met, and possibly never will meet? Does your husband think you are hiding things from him because you spend time on Cafemom?
I know that is a lot of questions, but it never really occurred to me that some husbands might be a bit miffed that their wives spend time on this website until I read about a situation in one of my groups. My husband really couldn't care less. He doesn't really understand the appeal, but then again, he is a man and not as relationship oriented as I am, so that makes sense to me. He has never gotten suspicious or questioned me about hiding anything though.
Oh, wait. I thought of one more question. What if you become really close friends with your Cafemom friends and decided to exchange phone numbers and addresses, does that upset your husband?
I really am interested in getting a lot of responses on this to see what the general reaction of husbands to their wives making cyber-friends on Cafemom.