Ginny's Secret Stuff

Just me, tellin' it like it is.......

 If you're on my friends list, then you most likely know that we lost our precious 31 year old daughter 2 years and 8 months ago.  On December 12th, 2006, she was killed suddenly in a car crash.  While on her way to work, a car driving the opposite direction crossed over the double-yellow line and hit her car.  She was killed instantly.

 But, whether you are on my friends list or not, I am sharing this post with everyone.  Anyone who has lost a child has discovered the sad truth that there are many parents who have lost children.  I'm hoping this journal post will help bring awareness and comfort to anyone who has lost a child (or loved one).

Our lovely Michelle

 

 Our loved ones send us signs from heaven.  It's important to be aware and open to receiving these loving messages.  Along with the memories, these signs help to bring a little comfort. 

 I am confident that our angel is with us in spirit, as she reminds us often with the loving signs she sends us.  If you have any doubts, then please keep reading.  For me, this is proof positive that she is our guardian angel and always with us, even if we cannot see her face.

  

I'll begin with the most recent occurrence. 

 Michelle had two best friends, Cindy and Dawn.  The three of them grew up together and were usually inseparable, even as adults.  Cindy got married last Saturday (8/8/09).  Around the corner from our house, across the street from where Cindy's parent live, I noticed two sunflowers suddenly popped up.  There have never been sunflowers in this place before, and there are no others.  Just these two.  I'm 100% certain that the people who live in the house did NOT plant them, because they are renting the house.  The yard is completely landscaped as it was when the owner lived there.  And, as you can see in the picture, there are no other flowers in this side part of the yard.  There are weekly gardeners who just maintain the yard, but never plant anything new.  And, if anything was going to be planted, it would not have been located haphazardly as these two sunflowers popped up. 

  

 

I have absolutely NO doubt from where these sunflowers came.  No one will convince me otherwise.  I'm certain that these were sent from heaven by Michelle, for Cindy to see on her wedding day. 

  

Here are three more incidents that happened. 

  

•1.      The day after Michelle's accident, I was outside on our patio.  Never before, had a bird flown onto the patio, until this morning.  There was a bird, different from any I had noticed before.  It fluttered very close to me, while seeming to stare into my eyes.  It remained for several minutes, before it flew away.  I was sure it came to let me know that Michelle is okay.  Since that morning, I've continued to see birds like that one.  (Maybe it's the same bird - who knows?).  A couple times, there's even been one in the parking lot where I work, which is 30 miles from my house.  I had never seen one like that there before either. 

 Earlier this year in February, my brother-in-law passed away.  The morning after he passed, there were two identical birds (just like the other one), who came to see us on the patio.  My guess is that one was Michelle and one was my brother-in-law, letting us know Michelle had found her Uncle Mike in heaven.

  

•2.      A couple weeks after Michelle's accident, some friends with a young daughter told Michelle's husband this story.  Every night they would pray for Michelle.  One night they were just so busy, and had forgotten.  The next morning, when her father was driving her to school, the little girl said "Daddy, we didn't pray for Michelle last night".  So, they prayed on the drive to school in the car.  When they arrived at the school, the father walked his daughter to class.  On his way back to his car, he felt something sticking to his shoe.  He picked his foot up, and found a Post-It note, on which was written "Thank You". 

 

 •3.      A few months after Michelle's accident, her husband took a road trip across the United States, from the West Coast to the East Coast.  He then headed up North to Canada, and came home from the East to the West, through Canada.  Canada was a place he and Michelle had visited together. 

 While he was away, near the end of last days in Canada, it was his birthday.  This was a difficult day for him - his first birthday without his loving wife.  He was all alone approaching the West coast of Canada.

 The day after his birthday, as he was driving near the coast, he saw a lighthouse.  He knew he had to stop and walk around.  Michelle loved lighthouses.  He parked the car and as he approached the lighthouse, he noticed something shimmering in the sunlight on the sand.  When he got closer he was shocked at what he saw.  It was a mylar balloon, just barely beginning to deflate, as if it had been there waiting for him since his birthday, the day before.  It said Happy Birthday on it.  

 Fortunately he believes in these signs, too, and he took a picture of it to show us. 

  

 

There have been numerous other events during these past two years and eight months.  I'm sure there will be more to come, and I look forward to each one.  Each is a blessing of comfort - a miracle from heaven - from our beautiful daughter, Michelle.

  

This is mighty powerful energy.  These are truly miracles.

 

Although we'd prefer to have our loved ones alive and with us the way they were, it's just not possible.  Being aware of these signals from the other side doesn't remove all the sadness, but it does help to ease the pain a bit.

  

I'm certain that if you begin to become aware and discover these special messages from your loved ones, who have passed, you will feel a sense of peace, which will help you get through these days without their presence on this earth.  You might not be able to see them, but you will feel their spirit and their love. 

 

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sonja007
Aug. 13, 2009 at 11:12 AM

Ginny that was beautiful.. I also believe that people in heaven give us signs that they are OK.  What a wonderful post.

Bless you Ginny and I love you ♥

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carmel92
Aug. 13, 2009 at 12:29 PM

What wonderful signs........glad you are able to take a moment and know that she is sending them.

hugging

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Mommy...
Aug. 13, 2009 at 2:41 PM

I too could tell you so many signs that I have gotten from my Daddy and from Robbie ,we made a deal and shook hands and he promised me he would be my Angel . I took care of him until his dieing breath from his illness . He had showed me so many . Until this day with what My Dad too had shown me also .. My Aunt Jan my cousin Tami died the exact same way your daughter did I never knew that both her and David were killed only the driver was drinking . Anyhow my aunt Jan didn't believe for the longest time . Until Tami has shown her other wise she wouldn't be a believer anymore . I hope that made sense .. There are just not coincidences that just happen . I am a true faithful believer in Angels .. We all have one or two . That was beautiful . Thank you so much for the reminders to keep that open spirit to see what they are saying to us ...

angel mini 

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momto...
Aug. 13, 2009 at 5:15 PM

Beautiful post!  I love getting signs like that and some even give me cold chills thinking about them.  My mom and I get signs from my grandparents all the time, we usually don't share with others because they think were paranoid or weird.  I'm glad to know other experience this too.  I was very close with my grandpa and he loved birds, even in his last days he still managed to get up and watch me put seed in the feeders.  3 months after his death it was a beautiful day and I opened all windows in my house.  While standing in the kitchen a bird flew into the house landing on my kitchen table.  I became overwhelmed with this remarkable undescribable feeling.  The bird stayed for 15 minutes, pooped on my table and left.  I thought oh yeah, it's grandpa, the prankster he was!

I believe my grandma is my guardian angel.  I feel her presence the most and it always comes at the right time, just when she knows I would need her.

I have many more situations like this but won't describe them, since I could forever about them.

Thank you for this lovely reminder.

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Shutt...
Aug. 13, 2009 at 5:59 PM

Lovely.  (Through tears, even).

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Lb128f
Aug. 13, 2009 at 6:51 PM

Beautiful! And, I do believe this is very true. I've seen "signs" too and it's great! Thank you for sharing these with us. Keeping Michelle in prayer!

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SinCi...
Aug. 13, 2009 at 6:55 PM

Thank you for sharing this journal with us.  God bless.

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FIVEH...
Aug. 14, 2009 at 1:37 AM

last month i had some stuff happen in my house things were fallin and i asked my sister in law when did my mother in law die she said july 16  it was to days before when things happenedmy daughter told me that it might be her grandma leting us know we have forgoten her  so we said a prayer never again will i forget her

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mierjo
Aug. 14, 2009 at 6:22 AM

What a beautiful post and what a beautiful daughter. Thank you for sharing with us! I need a tissue xo

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Joeyu...
Aug. 14, 2009 at 7:02 AM

I cried reading your post. It's beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

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