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Embarrassed by my gender sometimes...*TROLLS*
- Aug 17, 2009 at 4:07 AM
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I hear women say all the time,"If we ran the country there wouldn't be any wars and everyone would get along". I think I can agree with 1/2 of that statement.. Do I think there would be alot less war? Yes. Would we get along? HELL NO!!! What would we do? If someone pissed us off or we didn't like them for some little reason we'd probably go on national television and bad mouth them to the world! Why? Because we're mean and seem incapable of out growing high school drama. When I was in high school all of my friends were guys except for 3 girls who were like me. I use to think when I'm a adult all this crap will be behind me and I can have some good female friends. WRONG! Little did I know huh? It amazes me how we're suppose to be mature and so wonderful and we "rock the cradle that rules the world one day" but we can't get along with each other. I see it everywhere. When I had my first child I wanted to try the mommy play groups and park play dates, ect. Wow,did I get a awaking. They all had their little clicks and talked about each other behind their backs. Grown ass women behaving this way, just pitiful! I go to the playground and hear one little girl say, "mommy crystal said I was ugly" "Yeah well Jen said I was stupid". Both mom's are appalled and make their daughter apologize to each other. Then as their daughters go off to play they turn back to each other and start talking about some women they're friends with and how she's done this and done that!!! Really? It's not ok for your daughters but you can do it? What kind of example are you setting for them? Where do you think they're learning this from? Then I join cafe-mom. I was excited. I found this great site with just moms and we can bond, ask and share advice, and all those sort of things. Now yes, I have found some really awesome friends on here that are wonderful women. But I have also found many more moms who are bullies, mean, and will attack you just for the sake of starting drama. You know, hijack a post and change the subject to start a fight, or disagree with you but instead of doing it nicely they personally attack you, and so on and so on with the drama. This varied from teens to women in their 80's. Do we ever out grow this? Why can't women just love and support each other and when we don't like something be respectful about it?
If you respectfully disagree with me that's fine but if you attack me or someone else who has commented you will be B.I.D. (block, ignore, delete) as soon as I see your comment. Thanks.
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Sad, but true. :( I think "bidding" them goodbye is an excellent idea!
B = Block I = Ignore D = Delete!
I mostly agree with you. I have to say, though, men can be just as bad. I am the only woman at work, and I see the men start drama too. They can be worse gossips than any women I have ever known. I think women can be meaner over more inconsequential things though.
Has anyone else noticed Cafemom getting a little nastier since the economy started going downhill? I have been on CM for a while, and things seem to be getting progressively worse on here. I never noticed the moms being so vicious 2 years ago.
I AGREE
Well...
If women ran the country, I don't necessarily think there would be LESS war.
Just different reasonings for going to war.
You don't breastfeed...well, we are invading.
You sleep with your child...we are invading.
You feed your child fast food...we are invading.
Really, you let your child cry...we are invading.
Just kidding. Not ALL women are that petty.
So, that would be more accurate if say, CAFEMOM ladies, were running the country.
Because we are all screwups? I think its called being human. Its not just women its men too. but I have to agree with MissG9, it would just be different reasons for going to war, but there would still be war.
Nope I NEVER said you or anyone else was a screw up!!! Only that it seems like women, especailly some of the trolls on cafe mom, are unable to outgrow their high mentality and their little clicks and putting someone down to make themselves feel better. I would NEVER call someone a screw up, that would then make me no better then the trolls/women I'm referring to in my post. My point is that we need to band together and encourage each other, support each other, love each other, and when we don't agree do so respectfully.
Well we found that men sneak on here to cause drama and pretend to be women.
Also I found that since we are a specific group cataring to women through out the world that we are going to see more high school bullies on here.
I mean losers have to let off steam some how. Other wise they would be slapped left and right in the real world.
LOL!! I guess great minds DO think alike. Where can I get me some of that troll spray? Hahah
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And then say this........
I have already discussed with YOU how I feel about TROLLS, DRAMA QUEENS, TROUBLE MAKERS, NEGATIVITY , CONFLICT , and CHAOS!!!
Delete all rude comments...And ignore the person....TROLLS feed off of attention!
B. I . D. = BLOCK IGNORE DELETE ....
You will NEVER get some of these women to GROW UP ...EVER!!
I LOVE YOU SWEETIE! And so do many many many others.. :-)
THOSE WHO MIND DON'T MATTER AND THOSE THAT MATTER DON'T MIND...
Sorry your putting up with nasty , rude drama queens....
When I make a post.....I do not sit and watch it take off , I write it and walk away....SOOOOO I don't bother answering any questions that are rude , uncalled for or unnecessary , I usually am not even around to answer the kind comments!!!! Why people sit to answer themselves has NEVER made any sense to me....BUT HEY!!!! Who am I? IT IS WHAT IT IS >>>>!!!!
ONLY IF PUSH COMES TO SHOVE ~~~~I WILL NOT EVER BACK DOWN , BUT IT HAS TO BE WORTH MY PRECIOUS TIME...Which by the way it really never is, because I have a life outside of CAFEMOM, and allow NO ONE to rule me sitting here asking their rude questions , or comments!!!!
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