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[momof3trs]

OK, SO HERE IS THE UPDATE....(ON THINGS WITH MY BABY DADDY, BRIAN)......

 

I STOPPED ANSWERING THE PHONE. DUH... THIS TIME FOR GOOD. I AM DONE, I AM DONE, I AM DONE, I AM DONE, I AM DONE... WHAT FINALLY DID IT THIS TIME...I JUST GOT SICK OF HIS LYING, AND HIS DISREGARD FOR ME AND OUR KIDS...THEN, WHAT PISSES ME OFF EVEN MORE IS HOW HE SOMETIMES ACTS AS IF I AM LUCKY TO HAVE HIM, WHEN IT IS CLEARLY THE OTHER WAY AROUND...WHO DOES HE THINK HE IS...SO, THAT WAS IT. AS OF APRIL 22, 2007 HE [MY BABY DADDY] IS OUT OF OUR LIVES FOR GOOD, AND I COULDN'T BE HAPPIER. GOOD RIDDENS, YOU LOSER, AND I CAN'T SAY WE'LL MISS YOU. I DECIDED IT IS TIME TO MAKE A CHANGE. BEFORE I MET HIM, THERE WAS NO WAY IN HELL I WOULD LET A GUY TREAT ME LIKE THAT, AND THERE WAS NO WAY IN HELL I WOULD HAVE STAYED THIS LONG....BEFORE I MET HIM THERE WAS NO WAY HALF OF THIS S--T WOULD BE GOIN' ON...I'M GOING BACK TO THE OLD ME......THE OLD THERESA...AND I'M SORRY I LET A GUY CHANGE ME....AND WELCOME BACK, THERESA....I MISSED YOUR A--.

.....SORRY, I WAS VENTING A LITTLE. FOR THOSE OF YOU, WHO GAVE ADVICE, ON MY OLD POST, THANKS....FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT THE OLD POST IS POSTED BELOW. OH, AND MORE IMPORTANTLY, FOR THOSE OF YOU MAKING ANY [AND I MEAN ANY AND ALL] CHANGES IN YOUR LIFE, JOIN MY NEW [AND THE FOURTH GROUP I'VE MADE] GROUP...IT IS ABOUT EMPOWERING YOURSELF AND MAKING LIFE CHANGES...THEY CAN BE ANY TYPE OF CHANGE....HERE IS THE LINK.....AND GOD BLESS.

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OK, THIS MAY NOT SEEM VERY IMPORTANT...BUT IT IS TO ME...SO, PLEASE HELP.....

FOR ANYONE WHO HAS BEEN READING SOME OF MY POSTS, THEY KNOW MY BABY'S DADDY IS BASICALLY A DEADBEAT LOSER, WHO HAS DONE EVERYTHING IN THE WORLD TO ME...[EVEN THOUGH I'VE BEEN SO GOOD TO HIM IN EVERY WAY]....AND OTHERS IN MY LIFE, ie, MY FAMILY,....YOU NAME HE HAS DONE IT... [LIE, CHEAT, GET ALL CRAZY ON ME, ....WITHOUT GETING INTO DETAILS, JUST USE YOUR IMAGINATION]....HE WILL BEAT OUT ANYONE YOU KNOW FOR THE TITLE OF THE WORLD'S BIGGEST A--HOLE...SO, FINALLY AFTER 3 1/2-4 YEARS, AND 2 KIDS, ....I SAID ENOUGH IS ENOUGH, I'M DONE. SO, HE CALLS, TRYING TO RUN HIS USUAL GAME....I GUESS TRYING TO GET ME BACK AGAIN, WHO REALLY KNOWS....AND I TOLD HIM TO LEAVE US ALONE AND NOT TO CALL. HE AGREES NOT TO CALL, BUT CONTINUES TO CALL. I'M TRYING TO MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE, AND GET RID OF HIS LOSER A-- ...SO, WHY WON'T HE JUST DO AS I ASK, AND NOT CALL.....HIS BEEN AN A--HOLE, SO FAR, WHY BE AN A--HOLE ON THIS....WHY IS HE DOING THIS....AND WHY IS IT BOTHERING ME....ANY TIPS ON HOW TO MOVE ON, EVEN THOUGH HE CONTINUES TO CALL, AND I WANT TO ANSWER THE PHONE.....ANY TIPS ON HOW TO RESIST THE URGE TO ANSWER....

THANKS IN ADVICE, FOR YOUR RESPONSE TO THIS LADIES, ......I NEED IT BECAUSE IT'S DRIVING ME NUTS.....I'M NOT SURE WHY, I EVEN WANT TO ANSWER....WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME....

[momof3trs]

Apr. 28, 2007 at 11:11 PM ......I FEEL LIKE A WEIGHT HAS BEEN LIFTED OFF MY SHOULDERS...FINALLY, I REALLY FEEL FREE OF HIM THIS TIME...AND I TRULY HOPE I DO NOT HAVE TO DEAL WITH HIM ANYMORE...

(Original Poster)