My boyfriend and I have 2 kids a little girl who will be 21 months september 1st and a little boy who was born 7/29/09 and now he decides he wants to leave. He told me I make him miserable. I've always been the one making money so I almost always paid for everything done all the housekeeping and  I guess I thought he would do the same for me. I WAS WRONG!! I got pnemounia in may and even when i couldn't breathe he thought I should clean and do everything i did before. Now I'm finding out that it may not have been pnemounia but just an allergy to my cat I think. It put me in the hospital again last night and even though I didn't ask him to come I figured he would if cared. I WAS WRONG! Instead this morning he told me if I were working money wouldn't be as tight. ARE YOU KIDDING?? I just had a baby 3.5 weeks ago. I'll go back to work when I ready next month. He's just mad cuz i lost my income cuz I missed so much.

All I gotta say is you shouldn't piss of the mother of your kids....guess i'll just get child support set up 

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ladys...
Aug. 23, 2009 at 5:05 PM

Yeesh. This guy sounds like a right asshole. I think you'd be better off without him hun. Good luck. x

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annyPG
Aug. 23, 2009 at 5:20 PM

I'm so sorry that you are going through this ,especially at this time being a new mom and all ,mpo- you honestly deserve BETTER! don't be a fool kike I was with my  1st  I spent almost 13 years with a man that treated me and our two boys  badly -to say the least- I kept on trying to make it work and to make him happy,I  worked 10+hours in a  nursery school ,came home cook ,clean,took care of kids, while he did nothing,I put up with this nonsense, all bcz I did not want my kids to be with out him, so I made the mistake of waiting to they were older (this made things very difficult for them because they knew more at that age ) in your case please do your self a favor and leave this ungrateful ,unworthy piece of garbage, you'll do fine,and one day you'll meet some one that really deserves your love and your time,& all that you do because he will do it in return.take care be ,strong ,and GOD BLESS!

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