He cheated on me

[babysyoungmom1]

 I was so stupid thinking that he would never cheat.He used to brag and say thus relationship was the only one he remained faithful in.I called bd/bf last week and couldnt get ahold of him for hours.A female answered and i heard him tell her let her wait.He called back finally and said he was at a hospital.I kinda believed him because he's been telling me he was going there all month.Well yesterday when he called he said he met someone else and put her on the phone.I started yelling and screaming at her in hysterics.Come to find out he told her we broke up a long time ago.But we've been together almost 4 yrs.She was saying he was lying to her about me and everything he had told her about and if she'd known he had a family she never would've talked to him.He didnt call me back.But she called me back a few times to see how i was doing and to keep apologizing saying she had no idea and she felt bad and was sorry. I told her to tell him (he didnt want to come to the phone and talk to me) that he doesnt have to worry about us because me and our daughter wont see him again. I also found out he has an std.He told me he had gotten it from a bad tattoo needle.But he told her another story.Ive heard that story before.His ex wife had an accident and had a transfusion and thats how she contracted a minor disease.But he told the girl it happened to him.He must ve screwed around on me before her because the std is recent.She said they never slept together they just met online and cliqued.I told her not to worry about cs or anything because i'll move on to and told her to tell him not to contact us again.Im just crying you know.He went to jail for being a con artist for a few years i was to stupid to see he was conning our whole relationship.Im not sure i can trust anyone again.They're all the same.Sorry if this is long.Im just devastated and I hurt so bad i feel like i want to die.Ive been lied to for years i dont even believe he has a heart

[Anyana]

Aug. 30, 2009 at 11:26 AM

You are right.  They are all the same.  If you think yours isn't cheating, it's because he's good at it.  Being a tomboy growing up, I heard all the boy talk.  From teen on.  I still have just a bunch of male friends and they talk non stop about how gullable their wives or girlfriends are.  There is one that has a wife and two kids, a girlfiend with one kid and another girlfriend with no kids there.  Not one of them suspect anything.  They all three think he's the best man in the world and they are getting a great deal. You can't kid yourself.

[MamaScorpio88]

Aug. 30, 2009 at 6:20 PM

I am so sorry he did that to you

 

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