Young Mom...

[Francesca289]

I'm Twenty years old and a mother. It's hard... I used to have alot of friends and at the time I thought they were really good friends. Once I had my daughter they all seem to have disapeard. I've tried to keep intouch with them but it seams they don't care to be around me.

What kills me though is I was the one they all came to when they were in trouble and they can't even have the decentsy to come and visit once in a while. This isn't just a few of my friends either. This is all of them.

I would love to find mothers my age to hang out with. I wouldn't mind going out once in a while. I would prefer to hang out with responsabl;e people though.

btw I was a mother by choice not by accident.

[wilesmomma]

Sep. 1, 2009 at 4:55 PM

Sorry you friends are like that. I am also a young mother and know the hardships of being "alone". But I am happy with my DH and have found other mothers that I like, they're not my age, but I prefer it that way. Not many people my age our up to my maturity. Good luck, I hope you find many mommy friends!

[NICK3LR3Y]

Sep. 1, 2009 at 5:19 PM

I know how you feel. My friends were supportive up until I had my son. Now I'm lucky if I even hear from them. I think its awkward for them since they aren't married and don't have kids. They don't know what to do I guess. It does really suck though. Don't worry I'm sure you'll find fellow mothers to be friends with.

[mirit.rose]

Sep. 1, 2009 at 5:27 PM

go out with ur kid go to theparks story time, you'll meet new freinds!