Motivation?

[lonelyangel58]

Any one have any?  I am having such a hard time getting anything done these days! Just have no oomph.   Have so much to do but no ambition.  New kitchen cabinets are going up this weekend! I think it would be easier if I had someone here to talk to. Why are things~~everything ~~easier when you have someone there?  I have to get some of this stuff moved~~but to where? How long is it going to be there before I find the right place for it? Should I just throw it away?  Like spring cleaning!!!  YUK!!  Which reminds me I need to clean out the fridge~~at least I know where most of that goes~~Throw away!!! But then I can see that there is nothing in there. Friends make such a difference in life.  They uplift, encourage and keep us going no matter what. Even such simple things as gettting your housework done. If you have no one coming over, why give a crap!!  No one's gonna see it anyway! Not a good attitude for a lonely, depressed, trying to get motivated kind of person~~ME!! 

[kaidansmylife]

Sep. 2, 2009 at 5:28 PM

I know exactly how you feel... i fight that battle everyday, and usually no one wins :( hang in there mama it will be ok <3

[Gapeach001]

Sep. 4, 2009 at 1:08 AM

A friend of mine told me once that I probably get discouraged sometimes because I get overwhelmed by all there is to do.   For example, if my fridge needs cleaning and I don't have the time.. just do one shelf at a time!  What a simple solution. Take one box at a time..or work for just 30 mins on something and before you know it..it will be done! Also promise yourself a good chat with a friend, a good cup of coffee, a home manicure, or something else nice ..as soon as you finish and it will help motivate. Yeah, it is nicer with a friend to help but not always possible.  Hope this helps.

[Muzikmom2]

Sep. 18, 2009 at 12:19 AM

I know what you mean.  I think part of what you are feeling goes along with fibromyalgia and the depression that comes from it.  But I also know how you feel on the lonely front...if no one but kids & their friends and DH and my kitties are here what is the point?  Do you think we could e-mail ourselves to each other??? ;)  Hugs sweetie  ((((( )))))

PS:  Put up pix of your  new kitchen when its done, K?