Let me start out by saying Im AM NOT PERFECT...ok now that I got out the way ask yourself AM I PERFECT. 

NOPE  your not.

It seems to me that everyday I notice someone around me or I know being judged. Ok people I realize there are some whack people in the world who prey, kill and destroy. So we will leave those out of the mix. Im talking about everyday people who are  telling others how wrong there doing things. How to live there lives. How to have  a better marriage. Now dont get me wrong advice is always good but advice that seems to degrade i think people can do with out. I love the Lord with all my heart and honestly when woman come to me and tell what others says the only thing i can say Is you better Thank the Lord cause Jesus just saved your life. Everyone who talks to me is dear to me and if they are having a problem its not about you or how you feel its about being there for that person. If you say this is the way i am and this is how I talk remember what you sow you will reap so when someone talks to you crazy dont ask why just remember that feeling and try not to carry it on to the next person. Ladies where here to meet friends find support and connect. Not judge, degrade, and put down. If you dont care for the person simple state that you and that person dont have the same interest and it will be a conflict. Dont worry i havent been told anything from anyone im a watcher and reader I see how some respond and react and yes we are all right to have freedom to say what we want on Our page . But when your on someone elses respect that persons space. Email if you need to or just leave it alone takes more to walk away then to say something you will answer for sooner or later.  I am 29 years old and never understand why alot of woman never got along. I was a tomboy and now im a tomboy and sexy sophisticated lady and everyone on here has something to offer me.  So lets do better cause this is getting sad. We have kids ( most of us) and if this is how we act online then what do our kids see in our homes. We are molding them into our image and i want to look and see that i did the best i could and raised unbiased happy children who love everyone like there mom and is geeky and goofy as she is.  Im an encourager and someone out there needs to know that no matter what someone says you can or cant do , no matter what happened in your past , or what your going thru at this moment God is watching and he will handle things in his way and in his time and I am praying for you.  So if you where bashed today for your feelings though u may not have meant them the way they came out at the time( we are emotional creatures) or someone was offended by you and u didnt mean it be encouraged everyone is not going to undestand but I do and you will be fine blowing kisseslove dee

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