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gone like the wind- day 1
- Sep 8, 2009 at 1:33 PM
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so, my bf of 3 yrs left me today. i knew it would happen eventually and i think he did too; he just wouldnt admit it. i really dont think he was a very happy person and he was not very family orientated. he was more of a loner, which i am also to a point. but we was like really a loner.i am so sad for my daughter. i didnt want her to grow up without a dad. i know he's not going to see her b/c he has 5 other kids that he doesnt see. of course now he will since he went back to his hometown and that where the kids are. he didnt even say goodbye to her, or spend time with her over the holiday weekend. she has no idea whats going on. i could care less about me; i'm a little upset but just about finances. i hope i havent screwed her up for life. i know what it's like to grow up in a broken family. i hope that we can stay in contact and that he can maintain a relationship with her, but it doesnt seem very likely at this point.
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Hun I understand how u feel about ur daughter growing up with out her dad. I am going through that now. My daughter is 8yrs old and going to court for full cousdy. I have tried for 8yrs for her father to have a some what of a father and daughter relashion ship. He wants nouthing to do with her. In court he says how much he loves his daughter and he wants to see her. Well it has been 7 weeks And no call and no shows from him and he is sapost to see her every satday. She has come to relize that he dont want her. It hurts her but she knows where the love is. All i can say is love her everyday and dont push him to see her. If it was ment to be then he will come around. If not u 2 are better off. I dont kow him he just sounds alot like my ex. You injoy the time u have with her and be there when he breaks her heart. Becase she will see who cares the most. I have a bf that i have been with for 4 yrs and he loves my daughter and son with all his heart. Belive me there are men out there that will take u both in. In tell then keep ur head high and know that u are better then him and u have the best of him! Take care hun!