Marriage is rough

[dolphlver]

Marriage is so confusing.....I never ever thought that marriage would be this hard......I don't understand why my husband does the things that he does..I wish he knew how much I am hurting right now... I am so fed up I want to quit and give up ......

[MomofDos]

Apr. 28, 2007 at 11:14 PM

 

Keep trying....  Marriage IS so much like a roller coaster ride!  I KNOOOOW ask me!

[PamKR]

Apr. 28, 2007 at 11:14 PM Pray for wisdom, understanding, and more faith.  Ask God to guide your words, and have a heart to heart with hubby.  God can restore your marriage and bring it back to life! Do you believe that? You should. It is true.  Peace, Pam

[godsworker35]

Apr. 28, 2007 at 11:16 PM Hang in there honey ---Marriage is a full time job and it is one that you have to work at 24/7 I know I have been married for almost 21 years.

[godsworker35]

Apr. 28, 2007 at 11:17 PM Listen to Pam she know what she is talking about.

[tattoowife]

Apr. 28, 2007 at 11:19 PM girl...i feel the same....my husband thinks that i make everything harder on him....and that im selfish....when the truth of it is that he makes things hard on himself....in the way he chooses to do things and look at life...and if anyone is selfish...its him.....im a very easy goin person.....but he drives me crazy sometimes....more so lately than ever

[dmaaeb5]

May. 1, 2007 at 10:16 AM

You know it has been a rough ride for my husband and I but boy and I glad that we stuck it out. You know what has really changed things is that we are each looking at ourselves now and not eachother. You can change him only yourself and if you look at the things you are doing and work on them eventually he works on himself. if you get into a fight  sit down and try to figure out what you did to contribute to it so you can see wha tto do different. That is good because no matter what happens in your marraige if it ends and you get married again all your stuff goes with you. SO if you are working on yourself it only makes YOU better.

 

Good Luck, it is hard but you can do it!

 

 

marie