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Just somethings that fall out of my head

Ok, last night out of the blue I sent DH an email.

What do you want out of life? What is it that you want right now? What is it that you want 5 or 10 years from now? What is it that you see is a must have when you are on your death bed?

Did it just to check in, make sure we are both still on the same page, giving him an opening to talk about things he may not normally discuss with me, with anyone. He turned it around on me and said he expected the same from me...of course no problem. I wrote mine first.....

I  think mine is pretty much the same for all the questions. I like things the way they are for the most part.

I would like to be debt free.....maybe just under $xxxx in debt instead of $xxxx 
I would like to have my honey home at night.....yeah I know.
I would like to get over myself and actually get my but in gear and get healthy. Yes, I know make an appointment.
Your turn!


When he sent his answer he added....

There, see how I did that?  That’s how I want *you* to do it.   None of this “pretty much the same for all the questions” BS.  You started this, please give it a shot. 


How really do you answer those questions when you are generally happy with life. I have what I always wanted in life, my family. I am a stay at home mom(my dream) and I homeschool...added bonus! In 5 or 10 years I want to still be with my kids, making the transition into their young adult years. On my death bed I will look back and see my kids, how well they turned out(I hope), look at my grandchildren and be proud. Really at this point there is nothing to change, nothing that I need. Why is that BS?

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