I concieved Monica through unprotected sex and it really just took that one time. (Oopsies!)

After Monica was born, I was on birth control for a whole year.

Then finally, in June, I went off birth control completely. We have unprotected sex anywhere from 2-5 times a week.

As of yesterterday morning, I know that I am not pregnant!

I wonder how in the world we've gone 4 months without getting pregnant. I guess it will happen when it happens, but it just seems weird to me!

 

 

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ethan...
Sep. 14, 2009 at 1:36 PM

3 months here....secondary infertility is common (if thats what it is) and generally means that youll just have to keep trying a little longer then you did the first time. Try to track your ovulation (if you arent already doing so) so you know whats going on and that you are doing the deed at the best time ever.

You also might want to check out the dailey buzz, they just had an article about preparing your body for pregnancy and some things you can do to boost your fertility.

Good luck, relax- I'm sure you guys will get pregnant soon!

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mediu...
Sep. 14, 2009 at 1:47 PM

Thank you! We aren't trying especially hard, BUT we don't want our kids too far apart. We figure God will give us a baby when he wants us to have one!

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Trici...
Sep. 16, 2009 at 11:57 AM

Everything will be ok.. depending on the type of birth control you were on and if it made your periods irregular (like the depo shot) your body may just be trying to get on a regular schedule.

You'll get pregnant soon!!!

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morga...
Sep. 29, 2009 at 3:07 PM

it took me 2 years to get pregnant with my daughter

but here is a little of what my fertility specialist told me go 3 to 4 days without having sex and right before you have sex have your hubby drink a mountain dew that way his little swimmers are all "hyper" lol 

this is what he told me but we never tried cause my hubby hates mountain dew lol

best of luck

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