married, but feel like a single mom

[grlwonder]

 I've had it.  Just becuase he works fill time and only work outside the 2 days a week, does that give him the right to do nothing around the house.  Doesn't clean, doesn't cook,I have beg him to give her a bath, We're  (or should I say I am) trying to potty train, but he won't take her to the potty. I makes a face if I ask to just get me some milk for out daughter, complains when things don't his way. 

Let's face it, how hard is it to threw away your napkin and put your mile glass in the dishwasher when you are done, how hard is it to turn off a light when you leave a room, how hard is it to make more lemonaide after you finished off the pitcher....I'm am soooooo tired of everything being left for me take care of.  And the worst part, I feel as if NO ONE CARES ABOUT ME.  I know this shoulds shelffish........but I need time for me

I sprained my wrist a few weeks ago, it hasn't healed yet and I need help doing things because of the pain, but do you know that instead of helping me he goes and hangs out with a friend for the afternoon.  His reasoning...."well I went on a playdate with you so that entitled me to hang out with my friends". 

I've had, I am tried, frustrated, feel unrespect and unappreciated.  The only way I got him to thank for anything is to actually point out the fact that I did it.  Do you that there are things he PROMISED me he would do years ago that still have not happen (I know other hubby's have done that).  When I ask he says "ok, ok, yes, yes, I know I know, I will take care of it" ......still waiting

I feel like a married single mom, cause he does nothing except go to work, eat, sleep, and hang with friends.  Me, I work part time, trying to build a home business and take of our daughter 24/7 (yea even when I am at work, cause I know while I am there, he is sitting on the couch)...when I got home I have to ask him if he brushed her teeth, which is usually a no, so I have to do it. 

It would be nice if I just had someone to give me a hug and tell me everything will be ok.  I talked to my mom and all she says is...well how do you think I did with you and your twin......well geesh how is that suppose to make me feel better, that just make me feel like a failer and she doens't understand that

Thanks for letting me vent

 

[MommaTurbo]

Sep. 24, 2009 at 6:33 PM

You and me both sister! I am constantly thinking how i am a single mom that doesn't have to worry about money. Girl, i just had a baby on the 9th. I drove myself TO the hospital, HOME from the hospital and he went hunting ALL weekend that very next weekend! And then has the nerve to ask me to wash his camo.....meanwhile, *I* mow the lawn, clean the house, take care of both boys, etc etc etc, while the dresser i need for the baby's clothes sits on the back porch not painted, boxes of stuff that need to go downstairs still sit upstairs, the lightbulbs in the kitchen still burned out etc etc etc........it's ridiculous!!!

What are we gonna DO with them? LOL!

[grlwonder]

Sep. 24, 2009 at 8:55 PM

So, glad I am not alone in this.

HAHAHA, I asked a friend that if I got shot gun if she would testify temp insanity for me......but then that opens up other set of problems  HAHAHAHAHAHA........I am trying to refind my sense of humor....thats all I have to get through this

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