This may get kinda long. So I will try to keep it short. First, I am 34 years old. Until about 2 weeks ago I had never seen a picture of my bio dad. I have heard millions of stories and looked for him on line, made plenty phone calls, but still no luck. When I was about 12 I tried calling the number I found in the phone book, but his wife answered and she immediatly hung up on me. Seeing me as a threat I guess, see my mom was thier baby sitter.. My mom was 12 my bio dad was 8 years older than my mom. So, that would make him 20 when he started messing with my mom. They ran away together, lived together, he took care of my mom for over 5 years. All the while he had a wife and a daughter. Well, my mom ended up pregnant. And guess what he was long gone.. Left my mom. My mom was 17. At this time abortions where illegal in Indiana. So, my mom decided to keep me.. Despite the family telling her to abort me. My mom had me, alone, no man to help her.. My mom took him to court for child support.. The gull of this man. He brought in two of his friends to court and told the judge that my mom was a whore. That they had all met my mom at a party one time and they all had sex with her so any one of them could have been my father.. At that time there was no dna testing. They didnt start doing it at the court house till 1983. I was born in 1975. So, long story short. My mom never had any help. I never met my dad. All I knew was what my mom and family told me. I knew he was an alcoholic. And he filled vending machines for a living..
Well, long story short. I was bored one day two or three weeks ago. So, I decided to put my sisters name in on the facebook search. And it came up. Now back when I was like 15 I had called my dads house again, and his wife answered. And then his one daughter got on the phone. Threatned me. Said she was going ot kill me and a whole buncha other stuff.. They live in Indiana and I live in Florida.. So, I really wasnt worried about the threats.. I mean come on... So, I found my sister.. I have no siblings from my mom. I have been an only child my whole life..
So, I put her name in on myspace. And she came up. So I changed my name on my myspace and freinded her.. And she accepted. Not knowing.. So, as soon as she accepted me, I went thru all her pictures and I found a picture of my dad... And hes OLD!! Hes 60!!! lol... Well after i saved a few pictures I sent her a message and told her how easy it was to get into there life and all I wanted was a picture.. Well, then she emailed me back wanting to talk. So, she explains to me how when I had called there like 10 years ago they started questioning who i was.. There dad, my dad, told them that there was a dna test done and it was proved that I wasnt his kid.. LIER!!! So last week the two sisters went to the court house.. And the court house told them there is no record of a dna test! WHOOP for me!!! All the while there mom is telling them that my mom was a whore...
Anyhow, Now the sisters want to do a dna test on us to see if we are sisters... They dont want to say anything to there dad.. My dad. Which I think is bullshit.. I want to do a dna test with.. The sibling dna test is like 595 bucks.. THe regular test is only 195 bucks.. And I even offered to pay for it..
So, I called the Steve Wilkos Show... We will see....
What would you do? They wont tell him that they are talking to me... And im very mad.. So, what should I do... I need all the advice I can get!!
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