never thought i would need friends

[mamiicasie09]

So i got with my man and gave up trying to keep up with the dramas of high school to focus on us then i got pregnant and the little bit of friends i did have ditched out on me, now everyday i sit at home with my daughter and miss having people to talk to(mike is in utah for his schooling)...sadly all my friends decided to ditch me becuase i was pregnant and not alot of people like mike (my fiance). so now im just looking for some people who are not asses and could be good friends that wouldnt ditch out on me because they think my daughter is an annoyance and my fiance is worthless.

so if you could use a friend then id love to meet you, because i need some true friends.

[MSugarKane]

Sep. 27, 2009 at 8:23 AM

Try to seek in your local town   mom and baby classes,  or baby mom swimming classes.   That is where I found all my life long friends with children around my age group when I needed friends.

[RhondaVeggie]

Sep. 27, 2009 at 10:54 AM

Are you looking for other teen moms?  Try asking your daughter's dr if they know of any groups.  Sometimes local hospitals have them.  Hang out at the playground too.  I'm assuming that photo is recent and your little one is still very little but you might find some moms with babies there, especially if they have older kids too.  It seems like moms congregate at different playgrounds in my town depending on their demographic; there's one playground about a mile from me that seems to attract a lot of younger moms.  

Try a few moms groups in your area.  They're generally free or pretty cheap to join (my one was $15 a year plus $1 a week every time you showed up which included snacks and a craft) and you'll find moms of all ages there.  There will always be some who judge you but there are plenty of moms who have mom friends of all ages; I have friends from their early twenties to their late forties who all have kids around the same age as mine.  

[FDNYwife]

Sep. 28, 2009 at 12:52 AM

Seriously check out meetup.com.... I did and I made so many friends!  We go to all kinds of playdates!  Its totally free :)  Good luck!