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Husband threatened to kill me, the kids, and then himself!
- Sep 27, 2009 at 8:09 AM
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Well my husband is in jail until Monday morning when I have to go to court and ask for a restraining oder that will keep him away from me and my children. Hopefully he will be made to see a therapist and get the help he so greatly needs. We have been separated since August 1st and each Saturday he comes over to take the kids for the evening. His plan was to take them to his parents home to visit and then he would bring them back around 8:30. Our daughter Autumn, is three, and has Autisim. Brandin is 19 mths old. Hubby came over at 5, was suppose to pick them up at two, he was complaining that he didn't feel like taking the kids and had no ambition. I told him well its almost too late now so just forget about it. Go back home and get them tomorrow or somthing. He grumbled arouond, saw that I was upset and said he'd go ahead and take them tonight. So he grabs the kids and heads out the door, no coats, no shoes or socks and no diaper bag! It was raining and about 70 degrees outside. I said to him you can't take them like that, put shoes on them and coats. He said that they didn't need shoes and he wasn't going to worry about it. I said well I will put their shoes on them at least then, and I asked him to bring the kids back inside and he said no and kept walking to the car. I went outside and picked up my daughter and carried her back up onto the porch and he turned and started yelling at me, calling me and F'ing B**** and saying why are you acting this way? G** Damn it whats your problem they are my F***ing kids I can do what I want ect...I put my daughter in her room and went back outside. I told him that with that attitude he wasn't taking my children anywhere. I went to try and unbukle my son from his car seat and my husband grabed me and tried to throw me backward but I held onto the van and wouldn't let go. He was yelling and cursing at me and I told him to leave, to stop touching me and to go back home until he cooled off then he could see the kids later. He yelled and said I couldn't keep his kids away from him and said why are you doing this to me and he was crying and shaking, he pulled him fist back like he was going to hit me and I told him that I would call the cops if he did, so he started punching the van. I unhooked the baby and thats when my husband grabbed my throat and starting choking me and yelling I'll kill you you f'ing B****! I'll you and the kids then myself!! My neibor came out at this point and Husband let go so I ran into the house with my son and locked the door. I held the door closed and called 911 while my hiusband beat and kicked on the door and screamed at me. He took off when the cops arrived but they chased him down and arrested him. I was scared for my life, literally but the police said that Hubby is spending the weekend in jail so I am safe for now. I was having nightmares all night though and I am depressed and upset. He really snapped because he has never been violent before. I think it was just because I wouldn't listen to him and wanted to put shoes on the kids when he said no. He is not used to not getting his way and finding someone that will fight back and not roll over and say yes master, right away master, may I please go to the potty now master and may I eat today? I was head strong and independant and he couldn't control me so he flipped.
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Stay strong. I am glad you stood up for your kids and kept them safe. In his mood who knows what would have happened if he drove off with them.
I'm glad you stood up for yoursel and the kids! ((Hugs))
Thanks for your support ladies :)
Stay Safe....that is so scary it sounds like he has flipped. I hope you get the restraining order because it sounds like he is not operating on all levels.
His siter came by today and demanded the key to his and my old house back. I gave it to her but I still have belongings to get out though I guess his family won't let me have them now. He has a key to my new place and when I go to court tomorrow I am going to request it back. I hope I can get my things out of the old house because I have some antiques in there and my doll collection as well as some legal papers. His family is not on my side though. They basically were the ones telling him that if I didn't do what he told me that he shoud beat me! Or as his Neice put it, I deserved a good flogging...
Sorry you and your kids had to go through that !
I'm sorry. I'm glad you and your children are okay. It sounds like his whole family is messed up. :( I hope you will get a PO...be safe. And, don't worry about getting the key back....change your locks! As far as your "things"...have a Police Officer meet you there and pick them up asap! Good Luck!
http://www.ndvh.org/ Lots of good information here.
Thanks for all your advice ladies, really appriciate it!
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This Nevada mom of two - who are just 18 months apart! - is married to her high school sweetheart and loves to craft in her free time.
You did the right thing by calling the police, your husband sounds like he has major issues to do what he did. Make sure you GET that restraining order and don't back off on that. When it comes to our children's safety you have to do what you have to do. I'm glad you and the children are safe, thank God. I'll keep you and your children in my prayers. Please keep me posted.
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