My ex husband wants to sue ME!!

[lilmomma02]

This may come as a surprise to some. It came as a surprise to me. See i had a car and i did the unthinkable. Since my husband decided to take the only car we had and go to arizona leaving me and my two kids in texas while he was in school for 3 months without a car. I couldnt get around and didnt really know anyone. So when a dealer offered to help me get a car i jumped at the chance. Not realizing that one day it would come to bite me in the butt.  THe dealer helped me create my husband who was not willing to help me get the car though i cosigned for his without a lisceanse at the time. As i sit here and Thank God for how far he brought me I wonder when is enough enough. Yes i owe 6500 on the car i had repoed because he divorced me and wouldnt help me but since his name was on it and he has a clearance he decided to take matters in his own hand. He will sue me if i dont pay it for identy fraud and seek capital punishment for 6500 dollars taking me from my kids the only one they have though we stay with my parents. Why am i so calm ...because God is with me and whoever is reading this pray pray that God will have mercy on him and that he will wake up and realize you cant do this to a child of God and get away with it. No i dont want nothing bad to happen to him no matter how much he harrases me. i just want him to wake up and realize that the world really does not revovle around him . So those who know prayer please pray that he will find God and soon.  God has already taken care of me i have peace beyond understanding thru this situation. So when you are going thru a storm focus on what God is trying to show you not what you feel like or what you should do but what he wants from you and how you can grow from this. I hope it encourages someone today that no weapon formed against you shall prosper PERIOD....Be encouraged ladies

[MSugarKane]

Oct. 1, 2009 at 7:48 AM

If you make an attempt to pay him back, he can't do anything about it.  So pay him 1.00 per month, in check form, or money order, write on the check or money order,  payment for car.    Play ball!

[tabbys4]

Oct. 1, 2009 at 8:05 AM

ok help me undserstand.. were u two married at the time? did he sign anything how long was it that u bought the car and then how long was it when he filed for devorce? 1 months 2 months? because the worse case will be the judge will say make the payments but i agree with the above make payments even 5.00 a month will show at least your trying to payback and yes write in memo payment for....... he cashes it hes agreeing. ( money orders are best keep all recipts ) or have a seprate account so it dosent mess your acc up. good luck hun xo

[lilmomma02]

Oct. 1, 2009 at 8:35 AM

Often when someone puts a post out it is met with many opinions yes we was married yes i asked for forgiveness and yes he not only mentallly and physically abused me but took my kids socials got ten thousand dollars and spent it all on another woman(while we where married) and though that was my punishment. I took it. But now that i left him and we are divorced i am still being punished for leaving him. Before you comment and blame the person for what you dont know about ask them privately. I am a strong woman and admit my mistakes. I worry less about others thoughts of me Just that i can be here for other woman who went thru and know you can make it. I am going to take care of this situation but someone who didnt comment needed to know that they dont have to sit there because they made a mistake and let there husband continue to punish them for it when he is just as wrong. So though i thank you for the comments i figured id let you know there is always more to the story then what someone post and it may harm them to say something that you might not understand the whole situation of.  have a good day

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[MSugarKane]

Oct. 1, 2009 at 9:04 AM

Lilmomma  we all make mistakes, some bigger then others.  We as women here on CAFE should help others rectify mistakes we make and not throw stones.   Really, no matter what the circumstances that brought you to where you are today, IF you make attempt to pay him , even in small amounts, each month, and write on the money order or check that it IS in payment for the car, he won't stand a chance in court since your making an attempt to pay.  Good luck and we all do learn from our mistakes in life.  Life would be boring if no one made a mistake!!!

[lilmomma02]

Oct. 1, 2009 at 9:14 AM

MSugarKane you are right and i plan on doing that and i thank you for your comment that was the whole point of my post we make mistakes>what i did was not right but im trying to fix it and someone else might need to see that it can be done...

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