I guess the title gave it away. I wrote the other day asking for advice. And most ladies said to ask him what was going on and how he felt.

However, I didn't even get the chance to. His further words implicated himself as well as noticing last night that he deleted ALL his comments off MySpace, which were 98% from me and my son. Needless to say, it's quite evident he has moved on and decided NOT to include us.

He has told me IDK how many times in the past couple of days to go out and meet people, go on dates, don't wait for ANYONE, etc. So fine, I put up a dating profile on the free site www.plentyoffish.com ! And wouldn't ya know, three guys emailed me that I'm currently checking out. One I've emailed back and forth more than the others. Either way, it's a nice little ego boost since I've been stupidly waiting for my high school sweetheart and just wasting time. I learned a valuable lesson though.

Thanks for reading.

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Oct. 1, 2009 at 10:36 AM

Please be cautious and check these guys out thoroughly.  Because you are hurt right now, you are more vulnerable to making a bad choice.  Remember that character is what counts the most and that seems to be what was lacking in the last guy.

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Oct. 12, 2009 at 2:51 PM Please be very careful. It is very easy to make bad decisions when you are hurt and that brings on the feeling of being vulnerable. After a person has been hurt in a relationship, it is not a wise decision to pick up with someone and begin another relationship right away. Give yourself time to breathe. Keep me posted.

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Oct. 14, 2009 at 9:38 AM

I totally agree. I'm not rushing into anything. In fact, I stopped talking to them b/c I'm just not 'feelin it' right now. THANKS!

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