i miss my husband

[DEDESBABIES]

i dont know mabye i am just going out of my mind i just cant get around the fact that my husband thinks of me as just being jelous all of the time we have great sex but when it comes to us like talking and trying to be together we just cant we fight or we just dont agree on things or just dont talk at all hye finds comfort in talking to otjher people i cant stand tjhat its more often women that he talks to and not only that he is sweet to them he never used to be this way we were best friends when we started talking we dfated and then we had our daughter and things went wierd from there i just miss our conversations our alone time you know i dont want to just have sex all of the time i want his time but i dont know going to have to think about this some more.

[MSugarKane]

Oct. 3, 2009 at 4:30 PM

I have been married 29 years.  Last winter our electric went out for four days because of a bad ice storm.  The first night wasn't too bad, my husband and I talked a bit and went to bed early.   The second night we were SOOOO bored of each other.   The ticking of a clock that was battery operated was the ONLY noise in the house.  My husband had to take the batteries out of the clock. LOL....things you never notice until there is no electric for days.   Anyway by the second night we were using our cell phones calling to find somewhere,  anywhere to go and sleep with heat and electric.   My daughter offered her apartment to us. Thank God we are a close family.  We fit, but barely.  

What we realized was since we both live together, see each other daily and pretty much life goes on around us we don't have a whole lot to talk about after all these years when forced into silence of an electric outage.  

When the electric came back on , all went back to the same routine, grind of life.

What I would suggest to you though would be to see if you can get your DH to join something like a league or volunteer somewhere or do something together on a regular basis that involves other people.   It will give both of you some common ground and you can have something to talk about.