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jealousy
- Oct 4, 2009 at 3:30 PM
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hey ladies just wondering if any of you are jealous? after some of my ex boyfriends and exhusband i am very jealous i cant help it....like last night we went out and my friend had a couple of her friends come out with us that i didn't know and one of them just kept staring at my bf and i wanted to say something but if i do he gets mad and says why you have to talk like that why are you so jealous you know that i love you so i never say anything because i don't want to start a fight, well do any of you guys say anything when a girl starts to hit or flirt with you man? and i do admit i am very jealous i guess i really haven't had a guy that i thought was really hot like i do my bf maybe i think that i have someone that i think is so hot, but he is so much more that looks he is smart he is so good with my kids and i love him so much so i guess my ? is do you ladies get jealous when you see girls flirting with you man or do you just push it off because he comes home with you?
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In my case I just blow it off. That's because my guy gets hit on not only because he's hot, but he wears a unifom. I never really had a hot boyfriend before either. You should see my exes, lol. Luckily my kids look like me. Anyway, they just think how cool it would be to have him, but they don't realize that it's not a picnic a lot. I spend most of the time worrying and doing things like a single parent. If your boyfriend isn't giving you any reason to think othewise when girls are flirting with him, I would just ignore it and be really happy that you have a guy lots of girls want but can't have.
It doesnt bother me anymore than it bothers my boyfriend. women can stare all they want at him, and men can stare all they want at me. let them be the jealous ones 
know what i mean?
hey thanks ladies that helps alot its hard tho i do get thoughts in my head and once they are there its hard to get them out 
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Hi there, I dont know you but read your journal. Look at your face in this picture! You shine !!! And your eyes show alot of emotion. The kind of emotion that a real woman is supposed to have. You are beautiful. Don't waste time on jealousy. Find ways to empower yourself so you don't get sucked into thoughts that don't serve you well. Remember your children love you...your man loves you....you just have to love yourself. When you value yourself and follow your instincts...you are in charge of your life. Look into the eyes of your children and you will see what a miracle YOU are. Blesses to you.
- Jackett
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